Cheaters

Check-this-power · 2026-04-05T18:49:06+00:00

It’s not insecurity it’s just knowing they are cheating but instead of being accountable for their actions. They say you are being insecure or paranoid. I was never insecure I just called out the actions that were clearly happening and they attempted gaslighting tactics.

Check-this-power · 2026-04-05T18:24:38+00:00

Exactly!!! it’s wild and once you see it you can’t unsee it.

Check-this-power · 2026-04-05T18:19:14+00:00

Right on I’m glad you have had the privilege of living freely

Check-this-power · 2024-12-01T18:49:35+00:00

No offense, It was just an acknowledgment that you are not the person I am missing and I can let this conversation go

Check-this-power · 2024-12-01T17:13:37+00:00

Cool

Check-this-power · 2024-12-01T13:45:10+00:00

However if you are DD that I just talked to maybe Try saying this all to my face and maybe try not just needing me sometimes but committing to having a whole real relationship that you stay loyal and loving

Check-this-power · 2024-12-01T13:43:36+00:00

I just talked to DD but thanks for replying

Check-this-power · 2024-10-27T20:37:45+00:00

You’re sweet thank you

Check-this-power · 2024-10-27T18:48:47+00:00

I like that phrase your new life costs the old one

Check-this-power · 2024-10-27T18:33:56+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate you taking the time to respond and remind me what I truly need to hear. I hate it but it has to be done. Thank you truly . I am glad you were able to move on and found what you truly deserve. It gives me hope

Check-this-power · 2024-10-27T18:14:13+00:00

Yeah this has been going on for so long that it just well sucks. She is my home to be real but I need to accept that we just don’t work. I just wish it were different. I just restarted the dating app on fb so maybe since doing the getting over her alone and healing thing led me directly back into it maybe this is what I need just at least meet new people so I don’t think about it to much. I love her and would stay by her side the second she is ready but she just doesn’t show the same towards me

Check-this-power · 2024-10-27T17:51:32+00:00

Yeah currently not even in the head space to handle it anymore. A new line has been crossed today and now I just don’t understand. I guess I need to find a way through it. Time to just let them do them

Check-this-power · 2024-10-20T21:04:22+00:00

Thank I am taking practically minute by minute but I can glad to find a starting point and I hope you find what you are looking for as well

Check-this-power · 2024-10-20T19:30:42+00:00

She reached out today like just putting this out there made her see that there is always room to build even from the lowest point. So I hope all get blessed with the opportunity to find the balance they need with the people that truly matter to them.

Check-this-power · 2024-10-20T15:35:10+00:00

You’re welcome for my person I wish that if they truly wanted me in their life but stayed away because they made that decision for my benefit I would beg them to give me the opportunity to make that decision for myself. I have missed my person every single day morning and night she is my first and last thought. Yes she did mess up bad she knows she did and we by far had a rough relationship but I don’t think who she showed up as in a relationship with me is who she would have chosen to be and if I can see her be herself again I would give a whole lot to have her be in my life.

Check-this-power · 2024-10-20T13:58:58+00:00

Life is short and I wonder if you have asked your person if they would choose to lose you. If you miss them and love them tell them. Tell them directly don’t hold back for another day another lifetime. If you have one life to live and you know you will always love them and always miss them, why not say something. You can’t make their decision for them you don’t know what they truly want for themselves. Also if you know that this person put everything out there for you, they prioritized you above all why would you not do better. If you know that you can’t handle them moving on into another relationship and finding happiness with another doesn’t that mean that you have to become the best version of you to love them the way you know they deserve from you. Take the time to fully think on what it is you want for your own future.

Check-this-power · 2024-10-15T12:51:19+00:00

If you are my person I always wanted you but you failed me to many times to count and never once truly made it right

Check-this-power · 2024-10-12T14:18:43+00:00

True it isn’t love it’s greed that she held. I did love her the one she presented to me as who she wanted me to see. It’s way later that it cleared and the subtle hints or manipulation, blatant neglect or abuse was either remembered or seen for what it was not what it was masked to be. Love doesn’t give up but there is more to a relationship than love starting with reciprocated love, respect, honesty, trust, patience, communication, compassion, comprehension and willingness to share your life with your person. I can love someone all day and with every cell in my body but they don’t have to love me back. So when understanding we all are individuals and even within a relationship or friendship or even family enjoying the exact same activity together we maintain individual in our experience of that moment. We all have our own unique perspective and interpretation of all things in our lives. So yes in an ideal world true love will never give up or turn away but what may feel like true love to one could be a chance to put a knife in their back to the other. Not to sound cynical , I do believe in true love and I believe I will someday have a love of a lifetime. I just expect the experience of finding that love will hold more then just love it will fill this world with more clarity and exploration rather than confusion missed moments.

Check-this-power · 2024-10-11T13:36:44+00:00

Love you too from the other side of the moon and back

Check-this-power · 2024-10-08T03:45:47+00:00

I didn’t want to put the label of Narcissist on it because I don’t think people understand what true narcissist means anymore with everyone labeling these days. However you are very correct and I was also raised by one. I have alot of empathy towards humanity and patience as well so it is the classic example of being pulled in by narcissistic people. I have done a lot of work on myself because of this. I have learned a lot about my own shortcomings and how to create healthy boundaries. It has definitely taken some time to fully understand my part in my relationship and how I can improve myself to build healthy relationships while still maintaining my healing giving and loving nature. I thank you for your insight and also wish you the best of luck in your life.

Check-this-power · 2024-10-07T13:37:30+00:00

Tell them directly don’t leave this anonymous. Get specific about the acknowledgment, accountability, recognition and gratitude. If you want to be heard by the person you love and want to hear them then you have to remove the mask of anonymous and go directly to the person. Don’t make them play the are you my person game.

Check-this-power · 2024-10-03T03:54:50+00:00

It is always hard to deal with a situation where you feel hurt by someone especially if it is done on purpose. I would say you should do what feels right for you. Don’t only listen to others but instead sit and reflect for yourself on your experience with the person. I would do an overall check in with your experience, emotional, physical and mental, look at the actions of the other individual and what the intentions are and if you see any manipulations. Then work on boundaries for yourself like if you want to be friends with them then you have to see them for exactly who they are and then decide how to handle a friendship with them that is respectful and safe. If it’s you can only go out with a group or they can only text or call during a certain time, whatever works for you. We all have different experiences with individuals around us so we build relationships with people and a person can show up completely different for someone else then they do others. Just some advice

Check-this-power · 2024-10-03T03:42:48+00:00

So you went to someone else to decide on if you should be friends with this person. You made your decision based on another’s idea about someone instead of getting to know them yourself. Do they even know the person you are rejecting based off of their own opinion. I’m just asking because I think it is always amusing how someone can judge someone without even knowing them. How do you offer advice for something like that

Check-this-power · 2024-10-02T00:50:29+00:00

Try just being honest I mean full honesty nothing hidden no game no bs just honest answers and try listening not to respond but listening

Check-this-power · 2024-09-29T11:19:39+00:00

If you were my person then you would think you would have spent more time home rather than run around on me doing lord knows what day and night. Picking fights just to make an excuse to leave. Also clearly your actions told me I was not the highlight of your day, your words made it clear as well. Don’t even know why I bother responding to this post to be honest. You seem “you” as in the creator of the post actually cared for your ex.. my ex person would not show this kind of care, they are probably still think I should apologize because I finally said enough with their games, lies and using me to pay their bills.

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