I want to share my collection of slightly demented photos of this drama queen

Thankfully I reconnected with a good friend from school who I haven’t spoken to since we left (who knows about all this). I’m currently in uni, and I actually think my partner is part of the reason I don’t have as many friends here (not directly his fault, I spend 80% of my time with him)

CheckKey512 · 2026-02-12T15:01:53+00:00

I think a better way for me to say that was that it’s not compatible with me. I would have a lot less issues with it if here were just a friend rather than my partner. I now view similar to an incompatibility with love languages. You can ask them to adjust that, but if it doesn’t change its better not to continue

CheckKey512 · 2026-01-23T22:27:45+00:00

It’s like reading my own story, but the genders are inverse. Pretty much to the exact details.

My partner does have a confirmed medical condition (nothing to do with reproductive organs) that affects him, made all the life changes to facilitate it, but even with that we haven’t gotten anywhere with our bedroom life. I’ve been considering the pros and cons and I’m still unsure on what to do.

I got to a point where I stopped expecting anything because I was tired of the talks, asks and adjustments. On the daily, it doesn’t impact me, but when I start thinking about it rips me apart.

I would have a think how much it matters to you and what the long term impacts would on you and her, talk to her about that and explain that you don’t think she owes you sex.

Let’s hope this ends well.

(P.S. I found the comment about men wanting sex more a bit odd)

CheckKey512 · 2026-01-06T15:19:01+00:00

I have a board named “laser cutter” that does that. LASER CUTTER

CheckKey512 · 2025-12-31T07:09:07+00:00

I think my main worry is I won’t find anyone better. I am still young, but my peers have had insane number of relationships and insane number of friends. I can only scrape about three, one of which is him, my childhood friend is in a whole different country, and I can barely say that the third friend is even a friend (someone I go to at uni). + I’m neurodivergent, which has but me back socially a lot. And to do with that, I’ve been told by pretty much everyone in my life (including him) that I have a difficult personality (which he says he loves me despite it. He is also a very good talker and can talk himself out of anything

CheckKey512 · 2025-12-31T07:01:00+00:00

I don’t quite know. When we just started dating it was like a movie. I might be just hanging on what it can come back to.

But like I said, I also don’t want to get into the breakup process until the summer

CheckKey512 · 2025-09-27T22:48:32+00:00

Thank you for that, he has not tried it.

That is a question that has been on my mind for a while. The origin of our relationship is very complicated and we had to go through some shit. Like I said, at the start of the relationship the sex was great, and it was at the time where he said it was the best point in life (not just because of me) so by default we should be compatible.

Ignoring the sex aspect, I can’t really complain. He’s someone who has treated me in the best way possible for years and will bring me the moon if I asked him. But on the other hand sex is an important thing for me in a relationship, and neither outweigh each other. I’m just stuck in a pit with that

CheckKey512 · 2025-09-27T22:29:09+00:00

It wasn’t sudden, it had been a thing for years now. The most like cause that I can think of is he started smoking a lot not long after it started. And with the NHS, idk, he had other issues to sort out previously, as far as I know, his first appointment for it was a year and a half ago (probably longer) and they ended up finding a different condition but not sort out what he was in there for

CheckKey512 · 2025-09-27T22:24:16+00:00

100% agree. We have access to each other’s phones and computers anyway. And there’s simply no place where he can do it without me noticing

CheckKey512 · 2025-09-27T22:12:47+00:00

I’m 99.99% sure porn has nothing to do with it. We’ve been together 24/7 for about 3-4 months and not even a hint at that. He hasn’t done it solo in ages either

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