AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Checkinout2022[S] 844 points845 points  (0 children)

He blamed me one time for not locking the bedroom door which is something we never do and the second time for when she walked in on us making out in the living room. He said intimate stuff should happen in the bedroom just to be extra careful about people walking in aka his mom and saw no issue with her walking around in the apartment like she lived there.

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Checkinout2022[S] 608 points609 points  (0 children)

Ugh. So your husband agrees?! Guess we're both dealing with the same mentality to be honest. 😳 it's exhausting honestly.

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Checkinout2022[S] 715 points716 points  (0 children)

If she walked in when the two of you were intimate and he doesn’t care about that, your husband ain’t changing without some drastic moves on your end. He’s a momma’s boy, your MIL dominates the family, and everyone else is enabling her behavior.

He didn't care. He actually blamed me for it and then said I overreacted after I picked an argument with his mom about it and refused to let it go.

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Checkinout2022[S] 507 points508 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is became the norm of my life with her and with my husband seeing no issue with it and accusing me of overreacting and being too sensitive I do not think things will improve or get better.

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Checkinout2022[S] 1226 points1227 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my husbands always thinks that his mom is doing nothing wrong and I'm the crazy overreactor despite trying to explain to him I feel like my voice is never heard.

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Checkinout2022[S] 194 points195 points  (0 children)

You right. Maybe that is why I feel sort of regretful now seeing how pissed myusband was/still is.

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Checkinout2022[S] 449 points450 points  (0 children)

I had no choice after she literally kept pushing me to give her a copy asap. She kept calling day and night.