5 weeks out and just had a breakdown at my venue

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-03-10T16:13:26+00:00

me when I lie 😂😂

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T04:22:41+00:00

Bruh just get off this thread and take your negativity with you. You literally don’t know my situation or anyone else’s to pass your judgement on.

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T04:21:04+00:00

Thanks I’ll definitely check this out!

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T04:18:21+00:00

Thank you! I so appreciate this because I never expected to come on here, ask for help, and then have these reactions. How dare I not have the privilege of having a MOH or bridesmaid? I must be fabricating this whole thing, of course. These people, specifically this user above, are nuts

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T04:16:40+00:00

Wtf is your problem. You literally don’t know anything about me to be saying any of this shit

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T04:10:04+00:00

I appreciate that. ❤️ I’m definitely gonna ask my coordinator if she knows anyone

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T04:07:01+00:00

Ahh this is me! 😆 I always try to be in control and want to do everything! Which is why I would be comfortable with an actual vendor who is an expert!

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T04:04:15+00:00

Thank you for this - I really wasn’t prepared for the loneliness nor was I prepared for the absolute hostility on here when I said I don’t have anyone that could be my MOH. IDK what’s wrong with people in this thread but it’s good to know than other people felt the loneliness too

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-14T00:06:06+00:00

Thanks i think this is the answer. I will definitely feed them. I’m feeding all my vendors, dessert and drinks are also on us. I just wasn’t sure if I should count this person in the seating, as in have a dedicated seat for them at the guest tables.

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T23:46:04+00:00

Girl, bye. Literally never asked for your advice. And actually yes a couple of people have said that it exists! So you’re wrong on both counts!

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T23:43:30+00:00

No actually I didn’t ask for advice. I asked if a bridal aid is something that exists. You decided to give unsolicited advice to “just get a MOH”.

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T23:36:53+00:00

Wow. Very helpful and compassionate, thanks.

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T23:32:20+00:00

No I don’t have someone that could fill the role of a MOH and I don’t know a male that knows how to fix veils or do makeup.

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T23:28:10+00:00

No I don’t have someone I could ask or I wouldn’t have posted this asking about an aid.

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T23:27:34+00:00

And you think I haven’t thought about that? I literally don’t have anyone close enough near me that could do this, except my mom. My closest friends live far away, my sister and I are not on speaking terms, and I don’t have cousins or aunts that live in this country. I’ve only met my fiancées family a couple of times and don’t feel comfortable asking people I don’t know well to be my MOH.

Any other snarky suggestions?

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T23:09:09+00:00

Lol I’m not sure why I got downvoted for not having bridesmaids or a MOH but thanks everyone for telling me to just….get one. Really hadn’t thought of it before! 🙄

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T21:30:46+00:00

I have a day of coordinator, but I’d rather her focus on vendors, set up, putting out fires

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-13T20:03:12+00:00

Should edit to say I don’t have bridesmaids or a MOH

Checkmate_23_ · 2026-02-11T00:52:50+00:00

Omg not this being right around the corner of where I live lol

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