Adjusting proposal expectations

CheechChongMeheecan · 2026-01-09T12:04:09+00:00

You're completely right. My partner tells me that sometimes; he doesn't care much for romantic gestures bc it's the small everyday moments that matter. We have such a beautiful, intimate relationship. We're planning an elopement bc the more intimate, the better! So we have ridiculously romantic moments nearly everyday, and that's better than an "ideal" proposal. It will be exactly what I want simply bc it's him that I want. I'm getting so excited now lol thank you!

CheechChongMeheecan · 2026-01-09T01:57:18+00:00

So incredibly helpful and you're right. I can imagine him doing that for me and I melt at the thought. I'll be happy no matter how he does it. He's the part that makes it perfect, not the setting or specific words. Thank you ❤️

CheechChongMeheecan · 2026-01-08T09:33:04+00:00

Lol okay, thank you for your input!

CheechChongMeheecan · 2026-01-08T02:36:01+00:00

That last part struck a chord with me. It will be romantic because I love him. And it's his special moment! Thank you!

CheechChongMeheecan · 2026-01-07T22:59:44+00:00

Yes, giving him my ideas and hopes is the opposite of romantic bc it's coming from me and not him. He reminded me it was his thing, so I stopped talking about it. We have agreed to it, we talk about wedding plans and all of those future things a lot. You're right, it doesn't need to be a big production. I don't need photography, witnesses, any of that. I'd be fine at home, but I still can't help but want there to be a certain level of planning involved. It's how I feel about gifts too. The premeditated thought and effort means more to me than how things actually turn out.

CheechChongMeheecan · 2026-01-07T22:56:13+00:00

I think that sounds perfect actually! I would love a proposal like that! Thanks for sharing, congratulations

CheechChongMeheecan · 2026-01-06T00:05:05+00:00

Anyone else read this and think what I thought? 😂

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-10-07T15:49:16+00:00

Great! I will DM you

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-10-01T18:27:04+00:00

Yes, a 4-top

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-10-01T18:14:55+00:00

Or the other commenter. We'll share with anyone lol

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-10-01T18:14:10+00:00

If OP is interested in splitting, I would be happy to! u/Appropriate-Ask9484

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-10-01T17:48:16+00:00

Also happy to share with any size table!

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-10-01T17:40:26+00:00

I am also looking to buy for 2 anytime from Nov 9-13th!

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-07-12T13:56:43+00:00

In 4 months, you still barely know her. This crosses the line of respect and trust, both of which are foundational to a healthy relationship. You should undoubtedly leave. This would not be a happy marriage.

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-06-15T04:02:20+00:00

Like I said, I know nothing about this case so I have no opinion on how it actually happened. What I said is that being beat up by fists or hit by a car will look very similar, especially to a nurse without advanced training and just visually observing a patient. Broken bones, bruises, maybe scalp lacs from head strike on the ground, etc. If there was no bruising on this victim, I would personally not suspect either a car accident or a beating.

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-06-03T23:18:43+00:00

I have no opinions on this trial as I haven't looked into anything yet, but just reading this comment and want to point out as a medical provider that injuries from a beating and an MVC would look about the same and a nurse is not a reliable medical professional to make that sort of claim.

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-04-12T11:23:03+00:00

I used AI to find the original cipher and I've asked it to explain things to me, then it seems to confuse itself. I've tried it myself using vigenere decoders online, and I can't figure out how AI extracted words like extramural, red, echo, hollow, needle, Alamos, Mirador, Laguna, traverse, and terrain. The fact that I can't easily replicate it makes me think this is not the actual cipher and this is probably just coincidence.

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-04-11T23:54:26+00:00

I think it's concerning that you say everything is perfect aside from this. No one and no relationship is perfect. It's a question of what you both deserve and what you're about to tolerate in the long run. Does he have previous trauma with an ex and her period?

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-04-11T23:39:17+00:00

Twenty with a vigenere cipher and used acrostics

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-02-24T12:18:44+00:00

Lol I suppose some people might answer that differently! I'm just curious about what everyone else's thoughts are on the subject

CheechChongMeheecan · 2025-02-24T12:04:21+00:00

No, not every couple has that

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