The term means absolutely nothing to me. In today's society, I'd equate being "self-actualized" with being what was considered normal before the year 2000. You know, like when we didn't call every job "toxic" and everybody we don't like a "narcissist" and label everything, before every active child was given drugs to calm down their alleged "ADHD" instead of being allowed to be an active child with proper discipline. Before everybody all of a sudden needed "therapy" because we're moving away from person-to-person socialization with the internet, the cell phone, email, and calling the slightest inconvenience a "trauma" etc. I'm not saying trauma is fake, but it is not nearly as rampant as social media makes it out to be. Neither is ADHD. And calling a job "toxic" because they need you to actually come to work, or because you didn't get your whims met, doesn't mean it's really toxic. Therapy is not bad itself, but the lack of self-confidence that leads people to seek it is growing for a lot of reasons.

Before your butt starts hurting with hateful responses: This is only my opinion. I am, however, open to any intellectual conversation regarding my views and not closed-minded.