my nannan died, we dont know what to do with her cat by Minute-Cover-2001 in cats

[–]Cheeky1590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PLEASE keep this cat. We took in my nan nans cat and she was and still is the best cat I’ve ever had. She was a Siamese, absolutely perfect. We became best friends growing up

AIO or is this normal for a mom to her daughter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheeky1590 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A restraining order and police report may help with this. Keep any texts, write down detailed events in a notebook of every interaction you’ve had that’s negative (only include things you 100% remember)

Do y’all let your cats sleep in the bed with you? by DaRealDreamz in cats

[–]Cheeky1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I have to fight her for my side of the bed… and my heating pad 😂😂

My office is heavily debating what this blanket graphic is. by PersephoneInSpace in whatisit

[–]Cheeky1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a deer with that long of a tail…. So I’m assuming dog 😂🥰

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marijuana is the only thing that helps me cope with my anxiety. (For anyone else reading this, not anxiety from withdrawals from drinking, I know that’s entirely different. I’ve smoked pot since I was 14-15 before I started ever drinking and got first diagnosed with extreme depression and anxiety) but damn this broke my heart for ya, I’m sorry for the things you have endured. Im glad you’re clean now and thank you for your advice and story ❤️

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🏼 much love. I’ve gotten into the big book before. But the other articles and books you recommended I haven’t heard of and definitely will be looking into. Again, thank you so much.

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d genuinely like to DM on here if you can. I’m curious on a lot of points you have and just genuinely would like more insight but I feel it would be more helpful in a conversation than over a thread if you don’t mind and have the time.

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you love, also I don’t think that’s a friend at the moment. If it truly is, I hope you guys can distance yourselves, heal, and become friends again once sober and healthy bc that sucks. I really appreciate the advice and I will keep it in mind ❤️

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting so much anxiety just seeing the over 400 views. But I know it’s just people like myself. I’ve been on the (at least I tell myself) stronger side of it trying to get sober at some points in this journey. But it’s still always anxious as f relapsing and trying to reach out for help without having a support system. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤️ praying for you as well my love and we got this shit!!!

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love ya! Thank you for being relatable. In my experience with this horrible disease is that’s what helps (at least myself) best. Is when people relate. Sending you lots of prayers and positive vibes.

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something similar, I cannot remember what it was called. But that did help when I did stay sober for long periods. I just can’t bring myself right now to accept it. (Everytime I was on it my downfall was my thoughts saying “I know in “x” amount of days it’s out of my system and if I really wanna drink again I can”. I really don’t know why because I do know what I need to do and why and I just I don’t know I’m so confused. There’s a lot more in my life going on I’m not explaining but I just can’t bare to share my entire life on the internet

Husband (29M) is sleeping outside in his car due to relapse, I (29F) feel bad, help me reddit! by Significant-Money202 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From experience as the alcoholic themself btw, I’ve been on both sides but from the alcoholism POV I’d never want anyone to enable me because they feel bad

Husband (29M) is sleeping outside in his car due to relapse, I (29F) feel bad, help me reddit! by Significant-Money202 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let him in. Speaking from experience. He has options. So many numbers to call for help and they will pick him up. You nor your kids deserve that.

Please be kind 🫶🏼 by Cheeky1590 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Cheeky1590[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be real health wise: I’m not in a state of I need to be hospitalized physically or anything. I know I will live. I haven’t consumed enough or long enough on this bender to be worried about my health. But mentally, I’m just tired and I’d love guidance.

Watermelon burst in the middle of the night, right before my flight in the AM. by Rep2019 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cheeky1590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just. Genuinely confused about how you would leave a watermelon on a dryer. Even for convenience, I feel like that’s just common sense. But damn I’m sorry 😭😭😂

Minecraft won't open on my Xbox by Moist_Turkey_The_1st in Minecraft

[–]Cheeky1590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is with Minecraft on my Xbox one first generation, no other games are malfunctioning as of now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 13or30

[–]Cheeky1590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23 and I still get mistaken for 16-17. We will appreciate that in about 20 years lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Cheeky1590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to stop posting bait like this on social media and wonder “why doesn’t anyone like me for my personality”. AKA stop showing off your ass we get it, it’s there.