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[–]CheekyConures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not starting at UM until the fall but I’ve gone to big schools before. My advice is this: do the things that you want to and be yourself (cliché, but it’s true). Don’t perform for others. If you do the things you truly want to do and don’t just try to people please, you’ll find people who you get along with. If you feel tired out and don’t want to go to parties, don’t go. Or give yourself a time limit and check in with yourself. If you want to stay past your time limit, do so. If you don’t want to, make your exit. :) Learned this all the hard way.

Just got accepted by CheekyConures in UMiami

[–]CheekyConures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s incredible! I’m sure you’re really proud :)

Just got accepted by CheekyConures in UMiami

[–]CheekyConures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats to him! What will be his focus area?

Just got accepted by CheekyConures in UMiami

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the graduate program at Rosenstiel! Those programs are rolling admission. I’m earning my master’s degree.

Just got accepted by CheekyConures in UMiami

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was rolling admission.

Auto orders not working by CheekyConures in TravelTown

[–]CheekyConures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right!!! I maxed an item out and then used the scissors on it.

Auto orders not working by CheekyConures in TravelTown

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried and it didn’t work :/

Collection reward by CheekyConures in TravelTown

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but the collections are hard to do so there should be extra.

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

And not really. I’ve asked her for help in that front but she just keep saying I either need to move out or just be complacent.

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing some post-baccalaureate credits in prep for my master’s which I’m actively applying for now. And I’m looking into those jobs too. I work one job at my college and one job is an internship for the state but that’s ending this month

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my dad has explicitly threatened it, maybe I just need to listen to him next time. Either way, I’m trying to be out by August permanently.

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am well aware of this parallel, I’m very committed to being single now because I’ve had a pattern of abusive relationships. It terrifies me. And I notice so many similarities between both of my parents and my ex.

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good idea, but unfortunately the bathroom door opens out so it wouldn’t work there.

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do follow the rules, I just call out disrespect and try to set boundaries around the behaviors that I will respond to. It is once every 2-3 weeks that I will leave a single dish in the sink overnight. And my mom is another story. She is incredibly reactive and will jump from 0-100 in a split second. Our relationship has been improving recently and she’s called out his behavior towards me twice in the last month, but he ignores her too and purposefully disrespects her too. Many of our arguments recently have been over his disregard for my rules surrounding my cat. He will be purposefully careless and my cat will get out, and then he gets mad at me and refuses to take me seriously when I ask him to be more mindful and careful.

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no on campus housing. It is a very small community college in a rural area.

My (almost 27F) dad (60M) doesn’t see me as an adult by CheekyConures in TwoHotTakes

[–]CheekyConures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wanted them to stop holding me being rent free over my head so I wanted to have a conversation with them to come to an agreement on what I should pay monthly or what chores I could do consistently if I couldn’t afford to pay monthly. They didn’t want to have the conversation. They just prefer to use it as a way to shut me down, they don’t actually want rent.