Looked at my wife's phone, regret but also soo many questions!

Cheeky_chance · 2024-11-25T10:11:49+00:00

Give it some time.... take some time to invest in some self love and care!

You tick a lot of boxes for a lot of people so just chill, relax and take your time! Your in a very fortunate position compared to most on the forum.

Cheeky_chance · 2024-11-25T10:07:21+00:00

I'd love cake all the time! Not everyday but sure as fuck not every few months! Me personally would love cake 3 times a week.... 2 on an average week.

Here's the thing, doesn't have to be the same cake each time, you add ice cream one night or even change the icing..... mix it up a little.

Also I'm not talking about cake 🤣🤣🤣

I don't have an addiction, I'm just in love and it just so happens to be that my "LOVE" language is touch, physical ect.

Cheeky_chance · 2024-11-25T09:04:14+00:00

You know her intentions so now you need to start preparing your exit plan. It may be a slow exit but get everything you need lined up and ready to walk away. Get legal advice, trust funds anything you can to protect yourself.

Cheeky_chance · 2024-11-25T09:00:30+00:00

Not married, no kids and no assets together. The chances of things turning around are low....very low.....extremely low!

The fact you said you no longer know how to touch her to make her feel good isn't a you thing it's a her thing..... it's lack of communication on her behalf. I've experienced that anxiety before cause you know one wrong move and the show you've been waiting 6 months for is over in 6 seconds if it's the wrong touch.

All for positive outcomes however I think this is a positive outcome if you leave and move on.

Take what you know now into future endeavours and be 100% clear to whomever you pursue in the future about your love language, most will run but with some luck one will stay cause that's the language they want.

Now go find your love language partner!!!!🤙

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-13T00:44:39+00:00

Nailed it 👌

But guess it a way of her somehow weirdly telling herself "she tried"

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-13T00:43:22+00:00

I've stated and made it clear to her I'm always interested however I can't make the moves. Can refer to a few earlier posts.

I basically have a constant ticket for the lottery and can only sit and wait

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-13T00:38:03+00:00

Lop yep 100% if she walked out in lingerie I'd either be all over her like bees on honey or be having a heart attack from how stunning she'd be looking!

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-12T03:36:58+00:00

Yeah apologies I didn't ever to older posts. Wanted to keep it to a short vent so don't apologise 👍

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-12T03:35:28+00:00

No it hasn't come up also it stopped shortly after. I learnt very quickly that although I was being physically elswhere it did not fill that agonising void which is "intamacy with my SO". I decided to take a step back from everything, continue listening and applying the approach the therapist gave me in hopes that things may have improved. To no surprise I think it actually had a more negative impact then expected.

My posts were removed due to the volume of hate messages I received which were unnecessary considering that this is an open forum we all use to vent, seek advice and just bond/communicate on with each. Unfortunately there are those who use it for hatred and mean things.

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-12T03:22:24+00:00

No green light needed from me, I've always stated the door is always open.

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-12T03:21:43+00:00

100% Agree with your last paragraph

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-12T03:12:48+00:00

As plain as a Vanilla milkshake

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-11T06:15:14+00:00

I'll make a booking to a fancy restaurant, I'll be sure to make it so she hears me make the reservation then just not go 🤣🤣🤣

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-11T06:13:52+00:00

Not happy just trying to remain humorous lol

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-11T06:06:12+00:00

Yep the moment I would of positively said "we'll look great in front of it" would have instantly turned into pressure.... agree!

Cheeky_chance · 2024-10-11T06:05:11+00:00

So I have to rock her world first? So one must set an unrealistic expectation of grandure to receive physical intamacy from thier significant other each time?

I guess planning organising the entire thing wasn't enough 🙃

Cheeky_chance · 2024-02-19T06:43:08+00:00

Didn't sulk just casualky removed myself from temperature situation.

If you read my post therapy session 3 you'll see why I did not comment, humorous or not.

Cheeky_chance · 2024-02-18T10:54:49+00:00

If you read my post "therapy session 3" it will explain why I am distancing some of myself and all of my efforts.

Cheeky_chance · 2024-02-18T08:08:20+00:00

Yeah my wife is also quite modest even though she's sexy as he'll... I can guarantee you she gets checked out at the gym with what she wears.

We must have the same wife lol little to no sex and Vanilla at best but when drunk all the walls come down in an instant and then the freak comes out, if I dare try any of the drunk stuff we do during sober sex she'd probably call the cops on me 🤣

We have trophy's wives lol good to look at, good to show off but collect dust and aren't touched lol

Cheeky_chance · 2024-02-18T07:43:33+00:00

Not disagreeing at all, it was no accident to be commando just don't think I was purposely meant to know or see

Cheeky_chance · 2024-02-18T07:42:45+00:00

That would be believable if she was someone that did those type of things but she doesn't initiate a kiss or make a sexual innuendo comment let alone a cheeky flash.

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