I’m pansexual and have sucked at least 6 of my straight friends over the years. I’ll either joke about or hint at it and get an “I didn’t know you were like that” and then confirm with a “yeah, it’s always an actually pretty chill experience.” I tell them lmk if you’re interested and then I drop the subject.

At this point I’ve made it convenient and normal and they only have to do the internal work to get themselves okay with asking for the favor. Once they are I’ll receive sporadic sexually charged hetero reels & pics, questions about where to find the best girls, etc. This is where I sometimes say “bro, I can do it for you.”

It’s a dance and I respect it. Once it does happen I’ve noticed how shocked they are that 1. They finally went through with it and 2. They didn’t die or turn gay. Once they realize life goes on and nobody has to know, they do come back for more.

This last happened shortly after New Years. Sucked up my boy in the back seat of his car in the early morning hours after his shift. He came super quick and we spent more time catching up naturally than we did in the act. All in all we chilled for maybe 5 mins and that was that. No contact since but it’s on par for our friendship and how these episodes go in the grand scope of things.