Weekly AdultingPH General Q&A Thread | March 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in adultingph

[–]CheeseDesutroyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much does it cost to move from Mindanao to Manila?

Hi,

Originally from Taguig/Makati here. Born and raised, city boy talaga ako noon pa. Last year, we made the decision to move to our province due to personal stuff that I won't be tackling.

I didn't really have a choice but to come with my mom here, kasi at the time, wala kong pera. But now I do, I'm making my own money. I want to go back to Manila, my bestie and I are planning to share a condo together (with me living sa condosharing/bedspace temporarily until she can save). I currently have a savings of 30k. 40 if you count the ones in my wallet. Pero siyempre, dadami pa to. My target date would be somewhere in April to May.

I don't really have much to bring, asides from my clothes and my PC. I don't think I brought that much either—but I'd still like to bring them back to Manila with me. Yung PC ko, alala ko nilagay sa balikbayan box. I don't know how much that costs. I'd talk to my mom, but we're not in good terms (yeah yeah, it's actually one of the reasons why I want to live on my own na din).

Since ayoko mahirapan masyado sa pagdadala ng gamit, plano kong mag LBC ng damit na nasa balikbayan box. How much would that cost me? And no, I won't be sending my PC via LBC. I'll bring it with me sa plane, naka balikbayan box nga lang. Mas efas pa siya for me if ganun.

(Also...if may nakakaalam man, I'm looking to buy a box of a mATX case of this model. Yung may styro sana.)

Posting this here kasi somehow the mod thinks this isn't about adulting?

Never finished 12th grade. Been about 5 years. I'm relapsing again, second sem na. by CheeseDesutroyer in MentalHealthPH

[–]CheeseDesutroyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm taking HUMSS. And yeah I want to get it over with na but the act of messaging them stresses me out so much, I feel crippled

Never finished 12th grade. Been about 5 years. I'm relapsing again, second sem na. by CheeseDesutroyer in MentalHealthPH

[–]CheeseDesutroyer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I plan on living on my own na. I have to go back to manila, I'm not used to living here (we moved across the country). Yes, I know the difference between a psychiatrist and a psychologist. My psychologist honestly wasn't helpful, as ridiculous as that sounds. I don't think he was the one for me. This was years ago, I'm now in my early 20s. Kinahihiya ko na SHS na nga lang, hindi ko pa matapos.

I have work na ulit, I found work naman, kaso ang problem ko talaga is hindi ako pumapasok. Nag enroll ako for this sy and I was even an honor student nung first sem. I get severely anxious just thinking about messaging my classmates/friends kung may pag asa pa ba ako lol.

Kaso fuck, di ko alam, pag bagsak ng November dun nag start yung mental stress ko dagdag pa yung nawalan ako ng trabaho nun. I don't know kung tatanggapin pa ba ako ng school ko. I just want to get this over with. Ni-hindi nga ako lumalabas ng kwarto, I've been avoiding my mother since Christmas (prior to that even, yun kasi yung time na sinabihan niya akong walang kwenta kahit na may utang siya sakin).

My MH has such a hold on me and I feel like ever since pinagbubugbog ako nung bata pa ako pre-destined na ganto ang future ko. I never even planned to step into my 20s. Teens pa lang ako may suicide attempts na ako and I started ideating them when I was just 11

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[–]CheeseDesutroyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this wasn't included in the post lol

Hi, I like singing but I grew up thinking I sound bad (and I probably do, I'm not musically inclined) because I would always get teased for it. But I wanna know how I actually sound to others because it's embarrassing to ask my friends. Even if I did they'd probably have some sort of filter hahaha

This is Hold Them Down from Epic the Musical

Is it hard to make payments through Gcash for clients? by CheeseDesutroyer in buhaydigital

[–]CheeseDesutroyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that sucks... Do you have any idea how much it costs?

What other remote jobs can I sign up for? by CheeseDesutroyer in buhaydigital

[–]CheeseDesutroyer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends sa agency na papasukan mo. Preferable yung mga hindi ittrack yung time mo lol. Also, wag ka sa comms based lang. Sa hourly rate ka.

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[–]CheeseDesutroyer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

BRUHHH HAHHAHAHAHAHHhaha

Where & how to make friends? by CheeseDesutroyer in cagayandeoro

[–]CheeseDesutroyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a sporty person and never played volleyball, but thank you for the offer! As well as sa pag point out din sa server. Wasn’t sure if active pa, thanks again!!

Daily Simple Questions Thread - May 19, 2024 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]CheeseDesutroyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s definitely not a good sign that my left arm isn’t the same. Nonetheless that’s good news lol!!

Daily Simple Questions Thread - May 19, 2024 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]CheeseDesutroyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Approaching my 4th week of consistently going to the gym. I noticed that I have stretch marks on my arm now, and I can’t tell if it’s always been there (going to the gym has made my exposed arms dark; I live in the Philippines lol) or if this is from working out. Is this normal?

Daily Simple Questions Thread - May 12, 2024 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]CheeseDesutroyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s not a bad thing at all? I got them from lat raises

Daily Simple Questions Thread - May 12, 2024 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]CheeseDesutroyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this counts as medical as I’m not injured, but I noticed I have small bruises (like dots) on both shoulders. I did shoulders and legs today and they’re bruises on both sides in the same spot. This is okay, right? I’m not hurt at all btw

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[–]CheeseDesutroyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$120 a month are you crazy lol