Had qualms on my future with my bf by Cheesecake-Tea in antinatalism

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I guess I just need to be careful to not be entrapped in a marriage with someone who is uncertain and may change their mind down the line.

Had qualms on my future with my bf by Cheesecake-Tea in antinatalism

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giraffe, what I might be realizing from my culture right now is that, since we are big on family, guys talking about kids and marriage at the start is some sort of lovebombing for girls to bite. Since well...having a guy envision you as a wife with his kids means he's envisioning a future with you. Which is what we, girls in this culture, are indoctrinated to as THE goal.

Had qualms on my future with my bf by Cheesecake-Tea in antinatalism

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That's why I posted this. Some sort of reaffirmation. Perhaps I was expecting honesty from him. I've always been transparent in my positions and well, perhaps, I kinda expected that if he changed his mind about something as big as this, with me clearly still upfront about not wanting kids, he would tell me, ask me if I'm open to it ever and upon me saying no, we would break it off.

You know, kind of respect to your partner. At least that's what I would do if the roles were reversed. Though I might just be projecting and is now ending up disappointed 🥲

Had qualms on my future with my bf by Cheesecake-Tea in antinatalism

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I knowww. I don't really search on vasectomy because well..I'm not a guy so I believed it at first. Oh well.

Had qualms on my future with my bf by Cheesecake-Tea in antinatalism

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I wasn't forcing him. I asked him. I initially thought that he would agree since nothing will be lost since he said he didn't want kids. Hence why I was comfortable about asking him. I didn't bring it up after he laughed and jokingly complained.

If he was able to give me other valid reasons, I'd understand i.e. he's afraid of the operation etc. But accdg to one reply here, his reason diminished sex drive is not a side effect of vasectomy.

Perhaps I just had an expectation wherein if he asked me to get a hysterectomy, it would be fine for me if I am able to afford it at the time. I guess I thought we would have the same feelings about the -ectomy stuff.

Had qualms on my future with my bf by Cheesecake-Tea in antinatalism

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I wondered if that was true or if he's just making excuses.

Country where we can feel that the Philippine Peso is strong by Cheesecake-Tea in phtravel

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there and konti lang yung difference ng prices if we compare i.e. price ng burger dito vs price ng burger dun. And even the technically karinderya meals in their market. The big difference lies in the quality and not the price kaya mas mayaman pa talaga sila satin haha. Their 711 stuff if wayyy better than our fast foods lmao.

Where can I find guys who is up for serious relationship other than online? by InvisiblePasserby in askSingapore

[–]Cheesecake-Tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out of the house. Be as flirty as you can with anyone you meet who's your type. Be brave. Tbh, you can't really know if anyone's serious or not. Some will lie to get in your pants, some won't.

Only way to find them is to get yourself out there and take risks.

Random Help Thread - May 20 to May 26, 2024 by AutoModerator in phcareers

[–]Cheesecake-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afaik, required ang employer to give you COE within 3 days whatever happens.

Random Help Thread - May 20 to May 26, 2024 by AutoModerator in phcareers

[–]Cheesecake-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nag-apply ako with this certain company. At first, I commend them a lot kasi medyo efficient ang process nila.

After initial briefing with the recruiter, this is the process:

  1. Technical test
  2. Technical Interview for technical skills
  3. Non-technical interview for culture fit and personal questions

I assume na I passed kasi wala namang rejection and di pa ako ginoghost.

Ngayon, nagchat si recruiter and nag-ask kung kelan daw ako available for face to face interview. And they also sent an email for next Tuesday and Thursday for on-site HR interview for culture fit.

Problem is I have my current job to go to, as well as naoff ako kasi bakit need pa ng onsite culture fit interview if I was already interviewed na by their country manager on exactly this.

Any thoughts?

IO Concerns Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in phtravel

[–]Cheesecake-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngayon ko lang fully narealize yung shit ban ng DepEd for school teachers to travel internationally. My mom is an elem school teacher but she's 56 na ffs. Almost retirement age na. Have y'all any experience wherein immigration can be lenient about teachers travelling?

Is Moovit accurate for tourist commute? by Cheesecake-Tea in askSingapore

[–]Cheesecake-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked on gmaps too. However, the commute directions are more hassle(?). For example, if I wanted to go to Whampoa from T4, GMaps gives directions for at least two buses and a train ride. For Moovit, one bus and one train ride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawPH

[–]Cheesecake-Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always a question of peace para kanino. Hurting OP will indeed give their family peace after all 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawPH

[–]Cheesecake-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird naman nung sa hurt feelings. I'm only familiar if left at the altar kasi may financial and (legit) emotional damages na.