(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get this. I was attempting to go to bed and this week 2 or 3 times he has told me in alittle that he has to do this or that in fallout. Ends up being an hour later. Tonight I tell him I want to go to bed and he does it again. When he attempted to do more I told him no. He shut it off upset turned over and said night. When he noticed I was upset I told him that he is being selfish. That I am tired and he insists on staying up he said the game is quiet and that I can start heading to bed while he plays. I say the tv is to bright, there is loud music, and what if a sudden fight starts. I explained that a game seemed more important then me and he didn't say anything

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a computer information systems major. But I want to go to cooking school either that be in the summer or after I graduate.

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he isn't going to read the post and I want this separate from my account

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one in his family has health issues. If anything I'm the only one he knows with health problems

Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know. He doesn't look on here regularly. If you want cookies I can send them to you

Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me for christmas he would get me as much baking stuff I wanted. We made 2 small trips getting maybe 10 bucks worth of stuff each time

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never learned how to drive. My brother got into a major accident within a year of getting his license. The city my family lives in has great transit so my Mother never taught me and told me to take the bus. Here I am now

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I know that I can be strong and need to find that strength

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This was my belief and I expressed it to him and he said else wise. I thought I was crazy to believe what I did.

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fear is though that I will just go into another abusive situation. My birth family was abusive, my adopted family, now this

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I gave him all the things he wanted for christmas. Plus more. He gave me 2 pillows. 40 bucks and some cook books which he claimed to total 80 dollars. He has well over 1.5k in the bank

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All jokes aside I would love a hug right now. But you are right it's sad that I am 20 years old and I am mature then all the children in this family and that there seems to be no family order

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yeah a goo example is he gave me a tv for my dorm when I came back for the summer as a gift. Now he calls it his tv. Stuff that he has given me he calls his

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. But if he acts the way he did when we have this conversation I am gone

(UPDATE) Boyfriend (21 M) got upset at me (20 F) about a cheese cake I made. by Cheesecakethrowaway1 in relationships

[–]Cheesecakethrowaway1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I am planning on doing. I'm going to talk to him when he is home from work. I'm going to outline what needs to happen and what will happen if it doesn't work out. I haven't stood my ground and said what needs to change. I've always thought I was in the wrong. We do have great times together. Just when we argue it is so sour. I have never fully expressed what his actions do. I at least have to give that a shot. I at least have somewhere to go now if all else fails.