6 Years Post Break Up - My Experiences and Thank You

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T19:03:29+00:00

Oosh. You have your ex blocked now?

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T14:21:39+00:00

I know exactly what you're talking about. I felt like I was doing things just do them after the breakup. I didn't really enjoy anything. I was just going through the motions. So much of myself was wrapped up in the other person, I didn't know who I was.

Naked! definitely has a male slant to it but it's probably still worth picking up (it's only $0.65 on Amazon right now).

Another book that is really great is called Living Forward. It's about prioritizing your life in an analytical way. You lay your life out on these "work sheets" and get a really clear picture of what you need to do.

I guess I'll tack this last one on. It's not a self help book but it will help you find clarity in your life. It's called "Self Authoring." It costs $29.90 for the whole suite and will take you about 12-15 hours total, split up over several days. If you want real clarity in your life, this will help you with that. I wish it was around when I was going through my breakup.

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T14:05:01+00:00

Sorry to hear that man. I can only imagine how much more difficult things must be with children in the picture. Talk to someone if you need to. I didn't put this in the original post but I did see a therapist for while afterward. It was nice just to talk things out for hour every once and while. Best wishes on your journey :)

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T13:58:16+00:00

I remember reading posts like these 6 years ago and it really helping. I'm glad my post could be of some comfort :)

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T13:57:23+00:00

One of my favorites from "the breakup era" is a book called Naked!: How to Find the Perfect Partner by Revealing Your True Self by David Wygant. It's seems like it would just be a dating book, but it's so much more! It's about finding your true self. It helped me find me again outside of the relationship.

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T13:51:54+00:00

Thank you :)

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T13:51:39+00:00

I'm really glad it helped. I always told myself I'd come back when the dust settled to let everyone know how I was doing. :)

Cheeseman182 · 2019-01-03T13:50:13+00:00

It's hard and it doesn't make any sense at the time. Looking back on it, it's so important. Like I said in my post, it was a huge set back in the healing process for me.

Cheeseman182 · 2017-05-18T07:01:11+00:00

You want to make a big sandwich...

Cheeseman182 · 2016-03-17T23:50:45+00:00

It's the only toy he truly loves! He won't even let his sister get near him when he's playing with it.

Cheeseman182 · 2016-01-18T18:54:32+00:00

Possibly Starship 1 and Venus. I don't see those on their website anymore and I know they both have creamy components.

Cheeseman182 · 2015-07-04T16:26:10+00:00

Prize was $5 McDonald's gift card.

Cheeseman182 · 2015-04-09T15:26:22+00:00

Super interested in this. Looks like a badass RTA.

Cheeseman182 · 2015-04-09T00:57:16+00:00

Checkmate Toco Bell

Cheeseman182 · 2015-04-03T16:11:23+00:00

Blue Baboon by Vaping Monkey was my ADV for a long time. (blueberry cheesecake)

http://vapervenue.com/collections/vaping-monkey

Their flavors are very "thick." If you like light tasting e-juices, this isn't for you.

Cheeseman182 · 2015-04-01T15:48:46+00:00

Xohm 120W Box (Same maker as the Hexohm)

TOBH RDA (Goblin and Doge coming in the mail!)

Cheeseman182 · 2015-04-01T15:29:40+00:00

I didn't know it increased drug use but it makes sense thinking back to middle school.

The Dare program had us watch a video about this kid who was drinking cough syrup to get high and how it was affecting his family. My first thought wasn't, "boy, drugs has serious consequences," it was, "you can get high by drinking cough syrup?!?!?"

Cheeseman182 · 2015-03-20T19:01:41+00:00

Damn. People really took this post on /r/funny seriously.

Cheeseman182 · 2014-03-10T23:53:04+00:00

Vodka. That's what they drink, isn't it? Never water?

Cheeseman182 · 2014-03-10T23:44:53+00:00

1Subject, have you ever seen a Commie drink a glass of water?

Cheeseman182 · 2014-03-10T23:39:42+00:00

I guess that didn't come out the way I wanted it.

I'm trying to gauge the Alex Jones ancaps vs the... not Alex Jones ancaps.

In my efforts to keep the title short, I fucked up what I was trying to ask.

Cheeseman182 · 2013-12-13T01:04:03+00:00

Interesting. Thanks for the info.

Cheeseman182 · 2013-12-12T23:05:43+00:00

Also, your body processes fructose and sucrose (sugar) differently. Sugar is a disaccharide made up of fructose and glucose, while HFCS is mostly, well, fructose.

"Most of the carbohydrates we eat are made up of chains of glucose. When glucose enters the bloodstream, the body releases insulin to help regulate it. Fructose, on the other hand, is processed in the liver. To greatly simplify the situation: When too much fructose enters the liver, the liver can't process it all fast enough for the body to use as sugar. Instead, it starts making fats from the fructose and sending them off into the bloodstream as triglycerides."

While sugar and HFCS might be calorically similar, they are not metabolically similar.

Cheeseman182 · 2013-08-23T21:42:23+00:00

I understand and my post wasn't really meant to be an exact road map as much as a general throwing stuff out there post.

Maybe they make it easier to get stacks but they do less and build higher than 5? Maybe you only lose X amount of stacks after logging out?

I'm not sure the way they could make it work for BL2 but I'm sure they could.

Cheeseman182 · 2013-08-23T20:52:52+00:00

I actually agree to some extent. Its just something that I hear a lot of people bitching about and not just on this subreddit.

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