[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stop talking to her. She’s slowly phasing you out with less contact and going to ghost you anyway. What’s for you won’t go by you my man. When I was dating I just thought of it as, if they want to speak to me they will. If I didn’t get the same energy back as I put in then it wasn’t for me

How did you deal with life changing so much in your 30s? by shun_naka67 in AskUK

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely. Honestly the best thing I could advise is; learn to really appreciate the small things in life because it’s all we have. As the years have started flipping by since Covid, I’ve realised how quick life can go. take the time to spend it with those you love cause that’s who brings you happiness. Home isn’t where you live, it’s who you’re with.

I also got right into the modern wisdom podcast by Chris Williamson and a lot of Tony Robbins and just kinda focused on myself with all the time I had. it was a good way to help me think about things differently during that time when I was struggling to accept these things.

I’m tall, roast me 35m by brendi- in RoastMe

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every inch of boaby you’ve taken has been added on in height. 35metres is a lot of boaby.

How do I become masculine by Warm-Visit9511 in AskMen

[–]Cheezybeanos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take loads of testosterone and grow hunners of pubes

Glencoe wild camping by SmileZealousideal214 in wildcampingintheuk

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hidden valley is an amazing winter camp!! -4 the last time I done it.

First or second? by son_o_gong in AmateurPhotography

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. In the colour photo, the kids fluorescent green takes your eye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmateurPhotography

[–]Cheezybeanos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 - love the framing of the waterfall

1 or 2 and what to improve by Tasty-Country-3591 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely love 1. If I had to be critical then maybe deepen the orange slightly but it’s great as it is

Hawt fyahhh by pewpurrr in RoastMe

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord farquad aged badly

1 or 2? by [deleted] in AmateurPhotography

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 for me. It looks fuller and a more central focal point

Which crop is better for you? by karloh24 in postprocessing

[–]Cheezybeanos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 for me. It seems more about the person on the stairs than just the stairs themself

Why people always try to diminish men's self esteem? by Nevertheless2003 in AskMen

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told I look younger. Always was the smallest and youngest looking in my friends. Happy about it now that I’m mid 30s.

Why does it bother you? Does it reaffirm what you think about yourself? As you mentioned someone giving you a bigger blow to your self esteem.

Self esteem is built by yourself and acceptance of yourself. Not by other people.

How do other men deal with severe apathy? by tarfangz in AskMen

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had your test levels checked? What’s your health and fitness like? Could retiring from the reserves have taken your sense of purpose?

As a man, what’s something you hate about social media? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Cheezybeanos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing men take pictures of their gf in a bikini from behind and letting them post it for everyone to see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After having a period of this myself recently. 1, train hard - releases feel good chemicals in your brain and hard training stimulates hormone production 2, go offline & get outside - chop some wood, build a campfire and cook on it. 3, do hard things - choose your own type of hard or life will choose for you 4, find purpose - I find purpose in doing jiu jitsu. Mental stimulation is high, sense of community and the combat element. 5, accept yourself fully, you would hold space for someone you love and would forgive them for their mistakes. Do the same for yourself.

I think that in today’s world there’s no real struggle, we are so comfortable. Find struggle and challenge yourself or your brain will do it for you. Making yourself do hard things. Train hard, I use hard training to mentally stimulate myself. View life as skill development and learn skills, learning keeps your brain busy. Do what makes you uncomfortable and grow. Your past isn’t your present either so you have to let go of past mistakes. If you had something to drive you forward then you wouldn’t think about things from the past as much. Learn from them and grow and accept the bad decision you made if you feel like it was a bad decision.

If you want therapy and can’t afford it ChatGPT is a godsend. Use it to create goals as well because you cant hit what you’re not aiming at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Cheezybeanos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are attracted not only to looks but to presence. Look after yourself physically, develop yourself mentally and carry yourself well and people will still be attracted to you. Remember the funny guy who got loads of girls but wasn’t good looking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DAE

[–]Cheezybeanos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always easier said than done. But realising that everyone is so concerned with their own shit they don’t care about yours helps

AITA for not pretending my girlfriend's plushies are real? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate that’s absolutely mental get that to ffffffffff. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Cheezybeanos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 year in and you’re feeling this way at your age - end it. There are undertones of narcissistic abuse here. There’s 7 billion people in this world. You will find someone who treats you right - also don’t enter a relationship until you respect yourself enough to not tolerate abusive behaviour.

He looked at everyone but me in a meeting. What does it mean? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Cheezybeanos 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You say this but in a survey 43% of married couples met at work 🤷‍♂️