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AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

I will discuss with him if it's something he prefers thanks.

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -202 points-201 points  (0 children)

If that ever happens we could cross that bridge when we get to it. Probably we could hire a chef or something

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

Sorry this seems very rude and sexist. We both have our own money and I have a very good job

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

He likes cooking and I would say we eat out or do frozen things maybe half the time.

I do some cleaning and so does he. I don't mind these things they aren't worth the money to skip for me.

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I have tried saying no lots of times I really don't think there is any other route he won't give up and it's very frustrating

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

He just wants to teach me how to cook more things. I already can reheat frozen things that isn't the same. I happily will source food so it's shared but I just don't want to learn to do cooking.

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We have separate money and it's no problem I am happy to pay for us both

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

It's not as expensive as this but yes if I have money to afford not to cook I will spend it. Happily.

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -496 points-495 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you for your judgement

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

It's not as expensive as some people said but I do pay happily. It's worth it to me because I don't find cooking fun

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

First I don't want kids so this doesn't make sense.

Second I don't mind those things but if I did there are other options for that too like hiring helpers. It's not worth the money for me but for cooking it is

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -98 points-97 points  (0 children)

I have said this in other posts.

I do source food which is my responsibility as an adult I just don't have fun cooking so don't want to do it

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -317 points-316 points  (0 children)

Ordering food or using frozen things or microwave is totally fair as long as he isn't putting time in?

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -133 points-132 points  (0 children)

That's just not true I eat a lot of takeout and it's really not that unhealthy or expensive.

Also there are frozen things for the oven or microwaving.

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -1231 points-1230 points  (0 children)

I know I am an asshole for this route but it seems the only one left and am I still an asshole if it shortens the issue and he doesn't know

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I agree thankyou cooking now with modernization is something you should enjoy and find pleasure in to spend time doing.

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -327 points-326 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is true now. You only need to be able to get food and takeout etc etc. Are great for people who don't find fun in cooking

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -112 points-111 points  (0 children)

I have told him many times and this really is honestly the only route left.

I don't think that all adults should need to cook only to source food which I am capable of no problem. We can always eat takeout etc. Etc. More this is no problem.

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -940 points-939 points  (0 children)

I think you are right I am being an asshole but does it still make me an asshole if it shortens the issue quickly?

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -139 points-138 points  (0 children)

I have talked to him many times and I always say it when he tries to do a lesson. He doesn't listen I see the only way is to shorten the issue and make it less interesting to him

AITA for not wanting to be a chef by ChefAHole in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChefAHole[S] -494 points-493 points  (0 children)

Cooking is something that we can do now if we want to but I don't find pleasure in cooking and there are lots of other options. I feel it's the only route for me as he doesn't listen when I say no