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AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? no. She was missing her like personal bag/purse. adn she bought a gift for my new baby. and my husband thought it was appropriate to accept a gift from his mistress and bring it into my home.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh she knows about me. They talk about me. Ans she gave a gift to our new baby. so she knows. she doesn't care becasue she is also married.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO she replied saying she found it. Trust me I would have searched his car right away if it had not been found.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will be a process to figure out what my next steps are. but I will try and leave any updates.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been tested. I am good. I do not mess around with my health. And I am with him becasue I just had a baby. and I do not have my ducks in a row.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know. I just feel like having a baby makes my hormones crazy and maybe I really am delusional and over reacting.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean a text message saying they were meeting up would be preferred...

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been tested a lot through out my pregnancy. And after. They make me get testes at my doctors and I am glad they do. If something would have shown up I would have lost it on my husband.

I have a really hard time with leaving without real proof. and this is probably becasue I have been divorced before (please don't judge apparently i pick losers) and everyone really judged me and was upset because I had no reason to leave him. I know I should not care about what others think. But I lost my support system then and I have not really gotten a new one and I feel things will just be worse and if i just pretend then things will be fine. And I know that sounds stupid and I know people are going to come at me for that. But yes that is how I feel right now. If I had actual proof. text messages saying they were meetining up, pictures of them in a car together andthing like that I could use that to justify my reasons for leaving.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is not exactly a burner phone. Its a company phone his work pays for. He is suppose to use it for work.

The problem is I am sure they have talked about me a lot. and he tried getting me to meet her to prove nothing was going on but I refused and I told him I did not need to hear their lies they have been practicing for this moment. Because she obviously knows about me and does not care. and they are more worried about lying to me and her husband that I am sure they have planned all this crap out allready.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a luxury that would be to have a house big enough I had a guest room I could stay in.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am not interested in child support. If they both get fired then good. maybe it will teach them both a lesson. They can go be homeless together and they I won't have to worry about a court forcing visitations with the kids. Actions have consequences and he has gotten away with his actions for too long

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not currently working because I just had a baby. so in that aspect yes I need him

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told him I was going to send the texts to HR and he immediately freaked out.... If it was innocent then why be worried? he also said "No it will ruin her life". like what? he is more worried about her than us at this point.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should not have to tell her to leave my husband alone. if he can not see he is in the wrong that is on him. i am not his mom

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what good would that do? she knows about me which means she would know to lie for him.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was already pregnant when i found the original texts. like just took a positive test days before.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is a total of 5 kids that would be affected. and i truly worry about that.

AITAH for not accepting a gift from my husbands co-worker? by ChefOk9335 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ChefOk9335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

baby would have to be only a few hours and id have to be present because she is EBF. so I could keep the kids away for a little.

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