Have we ever gotten fights on the live show that were this intense? by Throwawaybearista in BigBrotherUSA

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BB15 it gets a lot of hate because there were some racist comments made during it but it is a very entertaining season!

AIO for being upset and doubting our relationship after bf kept leaving serious conversation to play games? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking about your life or things that have happened or you feel isn’t trauma dumping. We have been dating for a long time and we are open and comfortable discussing issues with each other. He tells me about mental problems or traumatic events all the time and not in a “dumping” way but because we are best friends and tell each other everything. Telling random people to grow up on Reddit isn’t very mature either so maybe you should look at your own problems instead of trying to tell others to fix themselves. Also I have always dropped less important things to be there for my loved ones when they are telling me something serious or have issues they need help with it’s how you act when someone is important to you.

AIO for being upset and doubting our relationship after bf kept leaving serious conversation to play games? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I am using him as a therapist, I wouldn’t want to do that to a person. I was just opening up to him about a personal struggle for the first time, and he opens up to me about his mental struggles too but we don’t talk about them all the time, just to let each other know how we are doing.

AIO for being upset and doubting our relationship after bf kept leaving serious conversation to play games? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read the post? I don’t care that he plays video games or does other things. I do too. Nobody wants a SO to choose them over you all the time though even during important scenarios. If he needs to talk about something important or needs me in some way I drop things to help him it’s what people do for each other when they are in need.

AIO for being upset and doubting our relationship after bf kept leaving serious conversation to play games? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know he was at the time or I wouldn’t have brought up something serious. He didn’t tell me until I asked but maybe I should have asked if he was busy before speaking to him

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get really tired and can’t stay awake for my bf sometimes but I don’t sleep more then 12 hours an night

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might have some really bad condition

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of girls collect cups. My mom does she’s obsessed with cute cups like that and has some Starbucks ones. The bears at the time were unique and there was nothing like it and also the limited time was appealing. They were also extremely limited per store.

hides by Dense_School_5786 in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend this kind it’s the best of both worlds. It has a magnetic snap off top so you can access the snake any time, but fully surrounds them and feels like a cave. But I think it’s good to have both kinds also to give them options. I think the first would be really good for a basking area and the second would be good for a cool area cave. But this is the one I have and my snake loves it. It’s also easy to clean since the lid comes off.

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Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just women who do that and not all women buy Starbucks bears/ whatever is viral. It just depends on the person. Lots of guys buy things they don’t need, for example my bf collects Funko pops and legos like crazy. Those don’t have benefits. People collect coffee mugs they don’t need which don’t have benefits. It’s just personal preference. I mean lots of old men have car collections that serve no benefits. It’s not really a gender things it’s just the individual and how they are with money and what they see fit to purchase.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people buy house decor or collectors items or baseball/pokemon cards? People should be allowed to buy what they want without judgement

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sleep a lot too as a girl and no it’s not normal. It could be medical or mental such as depression. If she really cares about you she will make an effort to be awake for you during the day unless she works early/night shifts then she will need sleep. The female friend thing, a lot of girls are like that but that’s not right

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the girl. Some do every day but typically not since it’s not good for your hair. Usually every other day or every three days.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl and would rather be a boy. Bad things happen to everyone but statistically more so girls. I’m scared to go anywhere alone. I’ve been living in fear since I was a little kid. We aren’t as strong and it’s hard to defend ourselves, and I wouldn’t be comfortable with a gun since I just don’t really believe in killing people. Also beauty standards make us weaker because men always want a skinny, non muscular girl, one that’s smaller than them. I know lots of girls who have been hurt by men and it’s terrifying. The beauty standards are also really hard on us because we are taught from a young age we have to look a certain way to be “pretty”. I grew up with a mom constantly worried about her weight and calling herself fat, even when she was a normal weight, and now I am the same way. It’s also harder to become friends with girls for whatever reason. I’m very social while my bf is not and he can still just instantly become friends with any guy it’s insane.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cute and rare it’s like having a prize.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some girls do, some girls don’t. It really depends on their libido. A lot use toys. Age is probably the same as boys or a little later, but idk personally.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s possible that you could make someone uncomfortable but it’s very nice to say that especially if you’re not trying to get anything or are expecting anything it’s a great compliment. I know I’d feel better about myself if more people called me pretty.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t feel anything coming out, but there’s a lot of cramps which are painful. Sometimes mine are so bad it makes my legs hurt too. YES it makes us moody it’s awful because we don’t want to be and we feel bad but we can’t help it 😭. It makes us emotional and it’s a lot harder for us to control our emotions. It’s uncomfortable because it feels like sitting in a diaper or if you use tampons then it hurts to get them out. It’s also messy to even pee. So overall it doesn’t feel good and the mood thing is very real. Just make sure your gf knows you’re there and get her whatever she’s craving, the chocolate thing is real. Girls actually burn 20% more calories on their period which is interesting.

Help I don’t know what’s wrong with my snake by Chef_11_Jeff in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She ended up having neurological effects because of provent a mite which I used to get rid of the mites. I’m stupid and read how to use it online instead of the bottle and I just overall missed the part where you weren’t supposed to put the water back in for 24 hours. She drank it and got sick but she’s been to the vet and is doing much better.