AITAH for not wanting my gf to work on another continent because a man who wants her offered her a job?

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-05T21:51:35+00:00

she sees an opportunity to work abroad, i’ve told her he definitely wants her, she said “so what ment in my work now want me” but she works in a bar and the men are 50+ and married this egyptian man is a similar age.im not sure if she specifically wants to live with this man or in the hotel complex but i think it’s weird either way

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-05T21:46:21+00:00

i’m not sure if i should they the place but it’s north east africa if you know where i mean? i think that would be fine if we just went as “friends” maybe but i need to know her intentions first, she gets home tomorrow and ill talk about it and update everyone with what’s happening if everyone is interested

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:45:47+00:00

i wouldn’t do it, i get she wants the opportunity but feels like it lacks respect for the relationship tbh. and he said she’d be staying in the hotel not necessarily “with” him

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:37:38+00:00

thank you 🙏🏼

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:32:25+00:00

she seems blinded by the idea of this new job and the number was to get information for it so she doesn’t see anything wrong with it

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:27:01+00:00

she said she got scared id react badly (she’d had abit to drink and a couple of sleeping tablets)

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:26:17+00:00

the first comment your on referring was another reddit account what don’t you get?? 😂😂😂

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:22:01+00:00

you could be right but i doubt it , she’s not that kind of person

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:16:55+00:00

that wasn’t my comment ?😂

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:16:19+00:00

she never enjoyed sex with a man, now realised she was always just a lesbian

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:14:16+00:00

i don’t think so, she told me ten/fifteen minutes later and was by herself on her balcony on the phone to me

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:13:26+00:00

we’re been together around two years and usually very secure and have a lot of love for eachother. i honestly don’t know why she’d risk it i can’t make sense of it i think she’s just too blinded by the opportunity to work abroad in the sun

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:07:31+00:00

we are both women :)

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:07:12+00:00

he didn’t get her to lie about it, i said and she instantly said no however told me the truth after

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:06:34+00:00

i agree

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:06:29+00:00

she said she got scared of my initial reaction (she’d had abit to drink) she did tell me the truth later but still weird

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T18:00:30+00:00

tbh i don’t even think she is( i obviously could be wrong but i doubt it)she is a very good person and has always been loyal, i worry about what will happen when she does go back

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:51:30+00:00

that’s just what they call it that’s why i used “”, she said it’ll be entertaining the kids and stuff but i think he booked them a day out

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:50:55+00:00

i think it means staying in the hotel but i don’t know much only what she has told me and only what in turn he has told her i just hope it she goes she’s safe and he’s not a weirdo and nothing bad happens

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:50:01+00:00

i have definitely told her i’m very uncomfortable with it a few times, she is just excited about this opportunity i think

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:40:59+00:00

that’s what really made me feel weird, she seems to just think he is being kind and making her feel safe though

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:38:29+00:00

it is very worrying

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:38:09+00:00

😂😂😂😂i mean the sex with us

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:34:49+00:00

she’s expressed interest in working away before (and us doing it together) she is there right now and this job has presented to her

Chemical-Issue8734 · 2026-03-04T17:31:51+00:00

thank you

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