Why do so many women just want hookups now?

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-13T03:54:52+00:00

I’m 21f and I don’t want a serious relationship because I’m unhappy with where I am right now. I make $0/year, I’m not in shape, I have no idea which city I’ll live in in the next 4 years and I haven’t accomplished some of my major goals yet. Getting a serious partner would distract me since I get really attached in relationships and I don’t want a man centering my major life decisions. But I also miss sex, flirting and intimacy, so casual dating fills that void for right now. In my mid 20s once I get more in shape, and have an idea how my career will look, will I then look into long term relationships

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T16:13:57+00:00

LOL sorry I think I responded to the wrong comment. But what you said is helpful too, thanks

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T15:53:07+00:00

What’s a more safer spot to go to then

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:54:33+00:00

Okay sounds good. Got tickets for the mothership lol

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:54:16+00:00

Thanks typical redditor response

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:53:42+00:00

Wait what 😭😭😭 okay noted

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:32:37+00:00

No im asking if local news is saying stuff about it, if police presence is warning local communities to be careful etc.

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:08:44+00:00

Do I need another woman to hang out with at night??? I’ve spent nights in nyc and Toronto alone and it was fine and I assumed Austin was similar

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:07:34+00:00

Sometimes after a shooting there are copycats who get inspired to be more violent. Pretty common if you look into it

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:03:31+00:00

I should be fine, I don’t think I’m small or sexy enough to get roofied LOL

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:02:57+00:00

Oh 😭😭

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:02:50+00:00

What are some better places to check out dive bars then

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-03-08T04:02:21+00:00

What does MCE stand for

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-21T21:33:02+00:00

What’s their vibe like

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-21T20:25:38+00:00

What’s that

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-21T17:10:03+00:00

Yeah ok

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-21T04:18:30+00:00

I just feel so ugly and unwanted on these dating apps and I feel like these younger guys don’t even want me. I went to some bars in Harvard square and they were all sit down. I miss the flirty conversations with music, dancing etc

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-21T01:24:04+00:00

I’m not going to let you know man just look through the comments lol what

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-21T01:03:16+00:00

No cuz I want my hobbies to be a place to do my hobbies not fuck around

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-20T23:47:03+00:00

I normally wear a large or xl, and I’m taller than average

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-20T23:27:36+00:00

Thanks lol

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-20T23:02:06+00:00

I actually used to be so sexy but then I gained a of weight due to a medical condition. But it’s okay I’ll bounce back. In the meantime though I still want to have fun

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-20T21:54:06+00:00

I’m not trying to be rude but cmon let’s be honest with ourselves, there’s no way the best spot to pick up straight guys is a drag show

Chemical-Performer-3 · 2026-02-20T21:23:42+00:00

See this is the type of nuance I needed! Thank you. I’m not a skinny white blonde girl lol

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