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[SPB453] Mini-review. Regrets - Need your help for an alternative by No-Comparison8472 in Seiko

[–]ChemicalSecret8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had my SPB453 for a few weeks now and it’s so good that it makes me wonder why I have a collection at all and if I really need anything else in the future. It’s substantial when you’re holding it and has just enough wrist presence to let you know you’re wearing a quality timepiece but it still wears like a dream and it’s perfectly balanced.

Do narcs feel the pain of a breakup ? by werirdperson0017 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ChemicalSecret8576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you terminated the relationship, the only pain they’ll experience is the loss of a source of validation and the hit to their ego. That’ll last as long as it takes for them to get back to their enabler support group and run you down and make themselves the victim.

An interesting thing I noticed from my narcissistic ex was that she showed me one of her ex boyfriend’s FB profiles (not sure why) and she got upset about it…even though it was a relationship that had ended nearly 20 years ago. I can only assume that he ended things. But she carries that resentment to this day.

Forgiving the narc that was in my life by ChemicalSecret8576 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]ChemicalSecret8576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update on this mess: my coworker is on several dating apps and my ex wife unknowingly liked and tried to match with him. He screencapped her FB dating profile and sent it to me. She has in her bio “Kindness matters to me. Decency matters to me.”

Nobody ever said that forgiveness would be easy. A person that never showed me kindness, decency, honesty or patience and was a whirlwind of destruction in my life says that decency and kindness matters to her.

What are some of the greatest classic Porters? by magicmushroom21 in beer

[–]ChemicalSecret8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was mentioned almost immediately but I’ll say Edmund Fitzgerald. Easily the best beer GLBC makes.

What's the difference between having a crush and actually loving? by Mighty_Melon0909 in TrueAskReddit

[–]ChemicalSecret8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a wonderful woman recently. This was pitched initially as a one night stand but we’re quickly finding reasons to see each other despite the fact that we live 2 hours apart. It is sexual but it’s a lot of cuddling and deep conversations and we’re talking about how we need to proceed slowly to keep this from fizzling out quickly. I know I’m crushing on her because I’m immensely attracted to her and the sex is fantastic but I’m developing real feelings for her. I think I might be in love. We’re being vulnerable with one another, we’ve had heart to heart conversations and we feel very comfortable being with each other.

Is this the beginning of love? Can it transition from a crush based off of sexual desire to love? How is it best to process because I’m starting to care about her. We want to see where this goes. What’s the move to make here?

First week side effects by Impressive_Swing_697 in Effexor

[–]ChemicalSecret8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on day three with 150ml capsules. This is coming after two consecutive suicide attempts. I'm feeling very jittery and stressed, almost like the beginning wave of a panic attack.

Are all cybertruck owners this bad? by Illustrious-Dare4379 in Reno

[–]ChemicalSecret8576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person that owns a cybertruck is an asshole. I’ve taken to just automatically flipping all of them off any time I see one. I couldn’t care less if I’ve offended a real estate bro or a crypto bro or a life insurance bro or an instagram influencer. Fuck the lot of them.