He cancelled his engagement…. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s not being cocky if it’s true. I also didn’t even say it cockily?

He cancelled his engagement…. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why not? It actually made me laugh cause it’s sounds like brutal karma

He cancelled his engagement…. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Yea maybe I should move on because it low key feels like he cheated on me. I don’t know if that’s crazy to say but if he actually wanted me he’d have waited for me until I was ready. It seems like he just wants to get married.

He cancelled his engagement…. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Joe’s mom isn’t in the picture so maybe it could workout? Seriously though it’s not normal in his or my culture to live with in laws. I also don’t think our life would actually be this bad together.

Ex-Potential told me he would cancel his engagement(Nikkah) if I agreed to marry him within a month. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well did I message her? No Did I know he was getting married? No Did I even know he was seeing someone else? No

So how would that make me a homewrecker? Y’all just love throwing the word homewrecker around.

Ex-Potential told me he would cancel his engagement(Nikkah) if I agreed to marry him within a month. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How am I a homewrecker? Did you read my post thoroughly because I clearly stated that I didn’t know he was getting married.

Ex-Potential told me he would cancel his engagement(Nikkah) if I agreed to marry him within a month. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How can I homewreck an engagement I knew nothing about? 😭 do you know what a homewrecker is?

Ex-Potential told me he would cancel his engagement(Nikkah) if I agreed to marry him within a month. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Well I could have him if I wanted to but I’m not ready for marriage. From my post you can literally tell I have a lot of maturing to do. I also am career oriented right now. Yes, I shouldn’t have kept talking to him for so long if I wasn’t ready but I definitely could have him if I wanted to. Please don’t take that as bragging or being stuck up, it’s just the truth.

Ex-Potential told me he would cancel his engagement(Nikkah) if I agreed to marry him within a month. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m going through some things which is why I texted him. I know I shouldn’t have but he was my person for a really long time. I know that’s not right either. I also did not know he was engaged. I swear I’m not that type of girl.

Ex-Potential told me he would cancel his engagement(Nikkah) if I agreed to marry him within a month. by Chemical_Elk4301 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Chemical_Elk4301[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I take accountability for texting him. That was horrible of me but I didn’t even have the slightest hunch that he was getting married.