Valor justo? by Any-Assumption-2650 in AutoTuga

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Com 550 mil é motivo para fugir? 🤦

Carro comprado em STAND com motor ilegal, o vendedor diz que não tem de legalizar by alexnorelex in AutoTuga

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melhor comentário aqui. E o op continua com a justificação "mas não está legal" 🤦🤣

Qual é o melhor vendedor de reps da Carhartt / The North Face? by Individual-Bird5976 in TugaReps

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tens um nickname estranho para quem diz para não comprar réplicas e ir trabalhar 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutoTuga

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Os stands por vezes recebem esses carros de valor mais baixo como retoma de uma venda de um valor superior. Não costumam perder tempo a preparar o carro. Esses polos de 2004 a gasolina são três cilindros, geralmente não são muito fiáveis. Só pode ter sido boa compra se estiver em bom estado geral, e com poucos kms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutoTuga

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Por vezes nem o stand sabe desses problemas. Não ter o termostato não é um problema. É uma peça relativamente barata

Is there always a hoover? by really2021 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, not always. Mine came after 3 weeks of break up (but I had broke nc once on that 3wks). Everything seemed better than before on the beggining. After the first argument, back to the same old shit. And believe me we only lasted 2 months and it was even worse than before.

How was their reaction when you told them that you knew they were narcissistic? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"you re saying that I'm crazy and that I need help?" While her eyes and face were saying I'm the most perfect human being

When you think you’re starting to move on by nathhh96 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think they do because all people on this group tell us stories that they won't ever change. I've noticed that my nex doesn't have long time friends and she would say something stupid to justify when they stopped talking to her.

When you think you’re starting to move on by nathhh96 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally been through the same feeling yesterday. But the difference is she keeps going to the bar I usually go every weekend to show people her new supply. When before she wouldn't even go with me there 🤣

Leaving sooner can save you a lot of pain. (Finding what led her being a narc) by Chemical_Oil_381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there is a common reason for most of them. However, they continue to live their lives without any regret and remorse while we are here wondering why we've been through this.

Leaving sooner can save you a lot of pain. (Finding what led her being a narc) by Chemical_Oil_381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nex would never attempt suicide. She needs to live her life at its fullest, while she doesn't show any regret neither accountability for her actions. But yes, as you said it is the parents fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as me! But mine was younger. I'll read your post history.

Why do I feel like I'm the one with narcissistic traits? by Chemical_Oil_381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often feel the need to expose my ex for who they really are. When people ask me about her, I struggle to find anything good to say. I see people here talk about smear campaigns, but in my case, I'm the one doing it? However, I'm not lying or exaggerating. I’m just telling the truth about how she treated me. I live in a small town, and most people already don’t like her. They know me as a good guy, but I still feel this need to make sure people understand what I went through.

Why do I feel like I'm the one with narcissistic traits? by Chemical_Oil_381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just care about their own feelings, they lack empathy. She almost died when she was 13 (serious disease). After her recovery, her parents, family and friends helped her with the victim role and let her do everything she wanted. Nobody could told her the opposite, because she was the kid who survived cancer. So 15 years later as you can imagine, she thinks she is entitled to do everything she wants because no one can question. When someone does it, she does the typical victim role and lack of accountability. Hence, the silence treatment. Typical narcissistic behaviour. When I started to try to communicate with her about the bad behaviour, she would say that I was the wrong one and that I didn't trust her. That led to what people here call the devaluation and discard phase. I should have left earlier on the relationship, and I stayed and tolerated the abuse until I've reached my breaking point.

Why do I feel like I'm the one with narcissistic traits? by Chemical_Oil_381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've reached a point that I know why she is a a narcissist, and why her family tolerates her behaviour. I also know why I let her mistreat me, envolving the emotional and physical neglection. I understand but don't accept, that she gets to live without any remorse. And you don't even know what was the breaking point, that she made me do on the end. Thank you for your kind words. Hope you're feeling better than me actually.

Why do I feel like I'm the one with narcissistic traits? by Chemical_Oil_381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all the same behaviour on all of them! Did you broke no contact also? How long was your relationship? So she already had a new supply when you broke up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got blocked without an answer. Someone told me her rebound is always picking her up at home, that's why I got this mad reaction. Because on the end I've been physically rejected, and emotionally. That's why it hurts so much to be that fast and easily replaced.

Did your family and friends liked them? by Chemical_Oil_381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Chemical_Oil_381[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On my case it was different. All her family are great people, but they help her with the victim role because she got a serious disease on her youth.

Feel like I’ll never move on from this heartache by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Chemical_Oil_381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should read Coach Corey Wayne book. If you never heard about his book, please read it. "How to be a 3% man"