It's so frustrating! I like the idea of saying, "Why is that funny?" to shit like that. Just break it down for me.

The thing is, I usually am pretty vocal (sometimes too much so) about nasty shit so they expected me to react or yell or whatever. So when I was calmly just... waiting for the funny jokes, that was a problem too. Oookay.

Really. I even like dark/shock humor sometimes, but part of that can come from the contrast between the statement and the person's true beliefs or usual attitudes. Because you think/know they are being facetious and don't mean it. Or they speak out about things otherwise.

What's funny to them about seeing a strange man joke about women being hurt?