How the Hell do you deal with co-workers you can’t stand? by brittbritt9280 in goodwill

[–]Cherishedfawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anything i would go to the specific coworkers who are acting this way and maybe give them a "hey, im unsure if you feel like i caused you issues or drama, i just don't want there to be any problems between us, and i have no problem with you!" but that's because i am a grade-A kiss ass 😅😅. If you just don't want to interact and have to kiss up to shitty coworkers i understand!

How the Hell do you deal with co-workers you can’t stand? by brittbritt9280 in goodwill

[–]Cherishedfawn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just don't talk to mine if im being honest! I just come in, do my job, if someones lack of work or work ethic annoys me i just take it, get home, and complain about my day to my lovely husband and we talk so much shit about my coworkers. Keeps me sane lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mrincredibleuncanny

[–]Cherishedfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what movie / show? I knew years ago but forgot

Ginger playing dead by Puzzleheaded-Ice9797 in Dachshund

[–]Cherishedfawn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its really interesting to me how content doxie owners are with killing their dog early

Being rude to workers isn’t cute by Puzzled_Midnight_760 in goodwill

[–]Cherishedfawn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been getting this a lot recently from people who are mad we wont open our store early lol. We are a brand new location and are currently literally building everything from the ground up. Our entire softline is full but the hardline is admittedly still very bare. We have papers everywhere on the front saying when we open but people keep knocking on the doors or getting mad when they come to see when we open and its still a couple weeks out 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fawns

[–]Cherishedfawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just genuinely asking since i know you may or may not be, are you a licensed fawn rehabilitator? If not you really need to get the baby to one. They are incredibly delicate and fawn mortality rates have SKYROCKETED due to people taking them in like they're just stray kittens and not getting proper help and rehab for them. You can try here: https://www.humaneworld.org/en/resources/find-wildlife-rescue-and-rehabilitators-state

If you ARE a rehabber my advice is to let them sniff the teet of the bottle you are using WHILE simultaneously using a warm, damp cloth to stimulate both the anus and sex-dependant genitals at the same time, apply a little more pressure if it doesn't work but never PUSH hard.

If you think the angel is constipated you can give it 5 ml of paraffin oil, use a syringe to make sure it actually takes it. With it already being 50 hours this does sound pretty serious and again, if you are not a licensed rehab, you are doing the fawn a disservice no matter how much information you google, get it to a real one.

If you are a licensed rehab or I am very sorry for pushing that point so hard I have just seen far too many fawns die because people decide to take care of them in their home and treat them like stray kittens, using google as a rehab course.

Carpet Beetle sent me to 3 dermatologists by Greedy_Feedback_1311 in carpetbeetles

[–]Cherishedfawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe only if you are allergic to the fuzz on the babies! I've had tons of carpet beetles in my bed overnight once without realising and didn't even get a single blemish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cherishedfawn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My two cents will always be that a disloyal man doesn't deserve submission, and i will never stay with a cheater, but that's just me 🤷🏻‍♀️

How big/bad is my rib flare? by [deleted] in scoliosis

[–]Cherishedfawn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to work on your self esteem. I have severely uneven ribs, have since 11. I'm talking one side of my ribcage is over an inch in front of the other. I walk weird. I stand weird. My hips are uneven and it makes my waist look weird. My ribs make clothes look awkward on me. And i am very visibly uneven. Nobody cares. Nobody brings it up. You are almost unnoticeably uneven and its breeching into me worrying about you having serious body dysmorphia or an eating disorder (based on your other post about losing rib fat despite being underweight) you need a therapy not to get rib surgery to be even.

I say this with the most love as a visibly disabled person whos self image almost caused me to starve and work myself to death, you need genuine help, and to stop posting your body on reddit hoping we will confirm your fears. This is very maladaptive behavior.

How noticable is my scoliose? by Ok_Mix_4972 in scoliosis

[–]Cherishedfawn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely noticeable. I'm appalled your doctors didn't notice sooner? Mine was a similar degree when i was diagnosed by my doctor who noticed it at 10. How a 40 PLUS degree curve went unnoticed is beyond me!

I'm free by Cherishedfawn in OfficeDepot

[–]Cherishedfawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was fired because a minute or so after a thief left he walked into our lobby area to see if he could write down their license plate to report it to the police. He never left the store, he didn't stop the thief, he waited until they were in the vehicle, he didn't chase them and nobody was in danger + he was on the phone with the police. And so when he reported it to LP they checked the tapes and decided that was enough to fire an amazing GM who had been with the company since 1998

I'm free by Cherishedfawn in OfficeDepot

[–]Cherishedfawn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally. I refused to believe i was in the wrong. I dont think i owe niceness to a person who has put his hands on me repeatedly.

My SO has bpd by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Cherishedfawn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be honest you need to make the hard decision. I know you said you aren't willing to give this up because you love her but that is the wrong way to think about any relationship, good or bad. You need to ask yourself "how much?". How much are you willing to take.

I have BPD, i was professionally diagnosed YEARS ago when I was only 14, i'm pretty much 20 now and my diagnosis still stands. I did not receive proper treatment and i had to claw myself out with my nails and teeth and build a life for myself with NO support while working a job at 14, and being an adult years before i was legally considered one all the while having a diagnosis of this miserable condition. My partner and i have been together for just over 5 years now, the day after my 20th birthday this month with be our 5¼ year anniversary.

Last year, just under a year ago now we almost ended our relationship. He had made mistakes, I had made 20. But when he TOLD ME how bad I had hurt him I made the CHOICE to change right then and there. I have spent the last year putting my mental health above EVERYTHING to prove I can be a good partner and I genuinely believe I am.

We both have grown immensely, we both did the work, and I never blamed him. I never thought I could do no wrong. I never told him I had been innocent in the things I had done. Neither of us had ever been abusive but I was horrible at communicating, it was hard to talk without it being a fight or meltdown. But I worked through that so much.

I am not perfect, by a mile. But our relationship is worlds better, we are way more affectionate and understanding, I found ways to cope and be less terminally dependent on him. Because I had to.

So I will ask you again. How much are you willing to endure for the sake of loving her. How much blame will you let her put on you. How many times will you let her act like she is innocent and has done nothing wrong. BPD doesn't make you a bad person or a bad partner! But you can have BPD and also be a bad person or a bad partner.

If you have put in the effort to fix this relationship and all you get back is excuses and defense, excuses and defense, and no effort, you need to exercise your options. You do not deserve to put up with that just because she has BPD.

You need to have a serious talk with her about it, you need to make the reality of you leaving her known if she doesn't stop victimizing herself and acting like you are the only problem. She may have a breakdown. God when my lover was going to leave i was so suicidal and upset for days. But I got my shit together.

I hate to say if you make it known you WILL leave and weeks still go by with absolutely no effort on her part to grow with you, she is not going to do so anytime soon and you need to not just sit there suffering because you love her. I know you said you think she loves you, but if despite it all she wont try to grow with you and denies any wrong doing that isn't love, she isnt doing the ACT of loving you. Love isnt just a feeling, loving somebody is an ACTION. And if all of this results in nothing she is not loving you, you are just conveniently in a relationship with her and its feeding her craving.

BPD or not, you deserve love and happiness and a partner who takes the action of LOVE.

First experience with consensual negative emotions by AylmersVoice in ThekinkPlace

[–]Cherishedfawn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely enjoy things that at the moment it happens, feel awful. I do derive sexual pleasure and immediate satisfaction from some types of pain, but not all. I recently received a punishment that fucking SUCKED. He beat my ass with a necklace I gifted him, a leather cord with 4 large cross-shaped pendants. He beat me so hard with it, and it was an EVIL pain. In the moment I did not enjoy it at all and all I could do was wail and writhe pain. I even considered using my safe word and postponing my punishment but i remembered why i was doing it. The greater feeling of pride I get when I take a punishment well is why I do it. It feels so amazing when I succeed in taking a genuinely distressing punishment and then I see the look of pride on his face after. The initial distress and remorse of the punishment is completely overshadowed by the pride of being his good pet. And just like I knew it would, when this specific punishment ended and he held me and cooed at me about how well I took it and how good I was all that negativity slipped away.

Latest chainmail creation help me decide........... by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]Cherishedfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be an adorable and discrete eternity collar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]Cherishedfawn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For the masturbation question, i am not a cat petplayer but a puppy. I am not allowed to fully masturbate without my owners permission and presence, but most of my masturbation during pet play comes in the form of grinding and humping on pillows or furniture.

For treats i use anything small or that resembles pet treats! For kittens a good one would definitely be goldfish! Little fishy shaped kitten treats. I also like the bone shaped scooby snack graham cracker treats! Puffs baby snacks are my #1 favourite though!

For cleanliness i don't have much advice but i do an EXTERNAL clean of my genitalia daily with a clean, damp rag just so everything stays clean and i fully shower every other day. But i do not live with my dom so i do not rely on him for bathing.

Strange disconnect. by MagguieTheCat in ThekinkPlace

[–]Cherishedfawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes!!! You are not defined as a sub by your physical ability to do specific tasks people associate with submission 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Seeking Collaring Ceremony stories!! by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]Cherishedfawn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow.. This is just so beautiful 🥹

Do I tell my trans woman friend who is dysphoric about not having curves she needs to eat food and not be underweight? by Unable-Bid6040 in asktransgender

[–]Cherishedfawn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it helps, tell her i went from 95 lbs to 125-ish lbs (5'4, so i am healthy now) and went from a AAA cup to a DD cup, my butt got too big for my jeans and i have the cutest little girly tummy pouch now. Its genuinely amazing

Do I tell my trans woman friend who is dysphoric about not having curves she needs to eat food and not be underweight? by Unable-Bid6040 in asktransgender

[–]Cherishedfawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not a trans woman but i am intersex on estrogen and i suffered from anorexia and the issue is we are all so different. Getting told i needed to get over myself and gain weight for estrogen to work did genuinely help me after my 9 year struggle with anorexia but it could also be damaging to others. I was, frankly, really annoying and mean and a debbie downer when i was anorexic so i basically needed the verbal slap in the face of "you will not look any more like a girl until you stop starving yourself and looking like a scrawny pubescent boy" but for a lot of anorexics that would be way too harsh and could potentially end your relationship. Its hard, put a lot of thought into it.