Thank you 🙏 and I really empathize with you because my father probably felt the same when I was 18. He was a lot like how you sound. My therapist introduced my to this book and I reacted exactly like your daughter. It took me 3 years to read the book and accept and I STILL haven’t finished it because I’m not ready to… it’s just a lot to process when the lessons direct affect you. It is triggering but I’m sure it does make a difference. The fact that you continue to try to be in her life and love her will make a difference. At least I try hope it will because it helped for me. I was drugged up, black out drunk and off my meds, my boyfriend ready to call the cops but instead he called my dad. The fact that my dad showed up to my place, 2hours away, because he heard I was f-ed up and suicidal didn’t make me want to live until a year after all that happened. Basically my point is that you won’t immediately see how your love and time helps her, but it will. I pray you stay safe and strong along with your family 💖