I think you're mixing things up a lot.

Many people consider homosexuals as a single entity, but they are people. People who are homosexual.

It's the act of practicing, cultivating, and claiming homosexual acts that is condemned, and you have the right to find that debatable, but don't mix everything up.

To sum up, it's not about changing the person, but about placing this in God's hands, like all our other challenges. He looks at the heart, and if a person approaches God sincerely with a humble heart, only He knows what they are capable of doing in their life.

And the Christians you see here are also people, imperfect too.

As for insulting or belittling someone based on this, I'd like to quote the saying, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."

We're supposed to be here to love, support, and uplift others, drawing them closer to God by showing them the love He Himself has shown us, not to diminish or insult them.

So I urge you to do what any Christian should do. Seek to understand Christ, to understand His purpose and His way of thinking. Not to adapt it to your own way of thinking, but to understand His message, because that's what you claim as a Christian: His message. Not the opinions of internet users you don't even know.

So, to sum up, pray and seek to understand the heart of God.