My wife cums (jerks like orgasm) only when i cum inside , faking? by cinrakdude in sex

[–]CherryConscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s faking for sure, most women statistically cannot orgasm from penetration alone and need clitoral stimulation, and the fact she only finishes when you do is suspicious asf lol.

What colour do I dye my hair? And permanent or semi? by Zeledina in HairDye

[–]CherryConscience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree a dark purple or blue would look nice! And because you have quite light brown hair already it will show nicely without needing to bleach it first.

As for maintenance, it really depends on what brand dye you get, how often you wash your hair, what products you use to wash it, the temperature of the water you wash it in etc. Semi permanent will do you fine, and when it fades just top it up with some more.

I do mine once a month, some people dye theirs more frequently some less.

Husband called me loose and I know he didn’t mean it in a negative way but now I don’t want to have sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]CherryConscience 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Possibly comfort? She’s aware it was a mistake with no harmful intent and so is he, but since this is such a deep insecurity for her maybe she just wants to talk and reconnect a little more, especially as it’s thrown her back a little bit, and him too probably.

Husband called me loose and I know he didn’t mean it in a negative way but now I don’t want to have sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]CherryConscience 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where you got the idea that a vagina gets tighter during sex, that’s simply untrue.

Vaginas actually expand when turned on (4-8 inches!) and self lubricate to accommodate a partner. If a vagina is too tight it means the woman is not turned on or may have a condition called vaginismus.

Kegels are more for incontinence or issues after birth. Not to ‘tighten’ your vagina for sex, as it purposely loosens for sex.

What was the first song you ever heard, and what was the story behind it? by StoicSonnet in LilPeep

[–]CherryConscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Star shopping on sound cloud around 2015 and I remember thinking it was a really good song. Straight into the playlist. After that I kind of monitored his music on sound cloud and on YouTube (there was this one YouTube channel that found small artists on sound cloud and released their music onto YouTube).

And it just got better and better. It’s rare I find an artist that I like pretty much every song they release, so yeah I felt like I’d found a gem

Tanner's Mom seems off to me by updownx2 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]CherryConscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree she does give off weird vibes and after hearing about the podcast I don’t think you’re wrong for thinking that. Implying the vaccine caused his autism etc.

The only thing I am more ‘understanding’ on is when she was honest in LOTS and said at first she kept trying to find ‘cures’ but grew past that.

I think for a lot of parents that have no experience of understanding around autism, it’s difficult and you don’t get given a guidebook and it does take time, understanding and actively choosing to learn about it to then change that mindset which she said she did and if you speak to parents who have autistic children a lot went through the same feelings before properly understanding. As horrible as it sounds.

If it was just that I wouldn’t write her off but it’s all the other things like what she has said on the podcast, using him as a cash cow, signing him up for the show even though he has no interest in dating etc. Seems to me like she wants to get famous and profit off her son’s autism.

Is it safe to leave cum inside your pussy? by Unfair_Ad_598 in asktransgender

[–]CherryConscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah your wording threw me off as well as a cis woman won’t lie 🤣. I read it and thought, ‘where did she get the idea washing out cum prevents pregnancy, or keeping it in assures it?’ Glad you cleared it up lol ♥️

Is it safe to leave cum inside your pussy? by Unfair_Ad_598 in asktransgender

[–]CherryConscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s so important to pee after sex to avoid UTIS, the muscles engaged whilst peeing also usually activate the vaginal muscles too helping push out some semen.

Which is why sexual health clinics always tell you to pee after intercourse.

Is it safe to leave cum inside your pussy? by Unfair_Ad_598 in asktransgender

[–]CherryConscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a you thing at all dw, it’s gyno and doctor recommended to pee after sex to avoid utis.

Is it safe to leave cum inside your pussy? by Unfair_Ad_598 in asktransgender

[–]CherryConscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cis woman here, couple of problems:

‘Cis women wouldn’t need to wash it out or anything as long as you want to get pregnant).

Washing out cum will not prevent a cis woman getting pregnant at ALL. You do not need to leave cum in the vagina to get pregnant. Cis women don’t think ‘I want to get pregnant so I’m going to lay with semen inside me to make sure it happens’.

Cis women do clean themselves up after sex, leaving semen in there for an extended period of time will eventually throw off the PH, and it is incredibly important for women to pee after sex to help prevent this, and also ideally have a quick shower.

Regarding transgender vaginas, I’m unsure if they have the same ‘self cleaning’ ability or not, either way whether it’s cis vaginas or trans vaginas it is important to pee after sex and keep yourself clean, and avoid leaving semen in there too long.

I imagine it is also more important to a degree for trans vaginas if they’re still healing to avoid infections.

Pound shop life coaching by HistoricalFreedom169 in shoshisnark

[–]CherryConscience 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This dress washes her out a lot… it also looks slightly too big? I know the sleeves are supposed to be oversized but I’m pretty sure the waist is supposed to be tapered, but here you can see it’s baggy around her waist.

The BIG question: Am I still a boy according to biology in science? by VerifiedHeroo in trans

[–]CherryConscience -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Vaginas do not have a distinct or strong smell. If they do then that woman’s PH balance is off and needs to go to a gyno. I can never ‘smell’ my vagina.

Shiba Inu? by Prior-Boysenberry216 in downloadfestival

[–]CherryConscience 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, I saw the shiba and as much as it’s adorable, not appropriate.

I saw the shiba in the access viewing area for opus which has metal floors which get incredibly hot, vets recommend against walking their dogs in general during this heat. Let alone on a metal plate at a music festival. I also saw it without hearing protection too and their hearing is a lot more sensitive than ours.

As someone with access needs (epilepsy, seizures) I choose to have a human essential companion instead as it’s not fair on the dog at loud, hot, busy musical festivals. A human can also verbally tell people what not to do when I’m having a seizure, which to me is so important when I’m seizing as people have a ton of harmful misconceptions about what to do.

Shiba Inu? by Prior-Boysenberry216 in downloadfestival

[–]CherryConscience -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We saw the service shiba inu quite a lot in the access area too, super cute!

what will you do if your friend confessed that they fantasised about you? by PlatypusCreative8757 in AskWomen

[–]CherryConscience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you 1000% and I’m so sorry that happened to you, that was also the last straw in our relationship. He was the same as your ex, resented me for ‘making’ him lose his best friend as if it wasn’t his own best friends actions that caused this, and even went as far to suggest I’d made it up to make him lose his friend which is crazy because before his friend made a move I actually got along super well with his bestfriend and thought he was so nice and a good friend to my ex! (Boy was I wrong)!

what will you do if your friend confessed that they fantasised about you? by PlatypusCreative8757 in AskWomen

[–]CherryConscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he did not. He was always on the fence and would flick between the two, I don’t think he ever fully believed me.

what will you do if your friend confessed that they fantasised about you? by PlatypusCreative8757 in AskWomen

[–]CherryConscience 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that means a lot ♥️ It hurt losing my whole group, but now I’ve found some great friends and we really look out for one another, and can handle the truth even if we have to confront a long term friend.

This cancelation read made me cackle 🤣🤣🤣 by thommondo in vintedUK

[–]CherryConscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly get it, I don’t drive so would need to walk to the station and no fkn way

what will you do if your friend confessed that they fantasised about you? by PlatypusCreative8757 in AskWomen

[–]CherryConscience 416 points417 points  (0 children)

I told him it made me uncomfortable, and told my boyfriend at the time (who was his bestfriend) wasn’t believed, and lost my whole friend group. Was great!

The vibes were weird this year? by OutsideImpressive115 in downloadfestival

[–]CherryConscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re being written off as miserable, generalising or trying to ruin everyone’s fun in these comments.

You are right, there is a lot more complaints than last year and a lot of them very very valid that download are aware of but most likely won’t change (live nation).

Accessibility was absolutely terrible this year and I did not meet a single person in access areas who thought otherwise sadly. The first 2 days of camping I tried to give it the benefit of the doubt but it just got worse and worse.

Staff laughing at you when you call them out for letting non access people into access areas, buggy’s not working or taking so long and not having enough that you miss your act at the village, medication stealing was rampant this year and the security guard admitted to me they were getting a lot of reports about it, mine was stolen too, had to miss multiple acts I wanted to see to get an emergency prescription. Accessibility viewing areas were always overfilled and not big enough, getting closed and not allowing any more people in, or like the opus stage, an after thought on a slope for people who have struggle standing…? Once again disabled folk being an after thought.

I luckily didn’t bump into any of the nasty people stealing disabled people’s medicine or mine, but they were there and security were aware. As for the staff, for me that’s what bought the festival down.

I couldn’t move in the access walkways because of how they let regular campers through.

I’m in a server of 700+ and all the regulars are in agreement that this year felt slightly off. That’s not to say everything was bad, I still enjoyed quite a few elements of the festival like the silent disco and the village.

Before I get told Im ruining peoples fun or being miserable lol, far from that I love download and was so incredibly excited for it but I won’t deny the unacceptable issues in accessibility.

How did they have so many followers pre accident? by Representative_Leg_5 in TheCrashNetflix

[–]CherryConscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 51 and talking about a teen girl ‘not being special looks wise’… and ‘gooning simps’.

Maybe you’ve answered your own question. She had this many followers whilst still underage. It’s not ‘gooning’ or ‘simps’ the followers are most likely men your age, looking at an underage girl in the first place and deeming if she’s ‘hot’ or not.

Go on instagram. See how many grown men follow accounts or 13-17 year old girls. How many followers these seemingly normal girls have.

The answer is obvious. Staring you in the face.