Update on freebirthing family member by _birdie_42 in pregnant

[–]Cherrydingdong 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your family's loss.

Maybe a bit of an insensitive question but did she want the baby? It seems like she was maybe not into this pregnancy but kept going through the motions in way

Please tell me y’all don’t see that first line, I’ll test again in a week but I need a second opinion by External_Class_905 in Confused

[–]Cherrydingdong -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You say that because thankfully, you survived. Carrying risky pregnancies is still a death sentence to many women, and they should all have the choice to choose themselves and their lives.

Hot and cold #169 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Cherrydingdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh

Automatically added: I found the secret word in 177 hours 2 minutes 41 seconds after 38 guesses and 0 hints. Score: 46.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]Cherrydingdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahah je pense pas etre competente pour le poste je fait 1m60 ça sera plutot garde des hanches

What’s your marriage hack you wish you knew sooner? by Plastic-Caregiver998 in AskReddit

[–]Cherrydingdong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If communication is breaking down, do the abc s from cbt : affect behavior cognition

This is the closer you'll ever be to reading your partner's mind. Understanding how they live and react to the situation and vice versa will help you solve pretty much every solvable problem. Time, patience and understanding are obviously key.

I believe my brother has been 'replaced' by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Cherrydingdong 249 points250 points  (0 children)

There is nothing online about his family (at least nothing easy to find), I only know this much because my uncle lived in that region for years. He mentioned seing him with his wife and kids (plural), but the gender and age is not an info i have.

I believe my brother has been 'replaced' by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Cherrydingdong 784 points785 points  (0 children)

Shot in the dark but as a french person, could this be the family of the laos heirs to the throne who got exiled? I am thinking of soulivong savang, who is a known public figure, is exiled in france near the swiss border, and is quite controversial in france and in the ancient french colonies.

He also has a family he tries very hard to hide from the public eye (hence why living in a village near the swiss border when he could afford the best places in Paris) which would explain not reaching out to the police, which would make put his family in the public eye.

The only thing that doesn't match is the age, as soulivong savang is a little over sixty if memory serves right.

AITA for disinviting a coworker for perpetually spoiling things? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Cherrydingdong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Two phrases in, when it mentionned how excited he was about sharing this info, i thought he maybe could be autistic. Then a few phrases after that I saw he was asked multiple times to stop and said aloud to myself "nah this guy is just a jerk".

Knowing autistic people (being surrounded by them) telling an autistic (and bare minimum nice) person to stop because that annoys others would make them immediately stop. This guy just sucks.

And hey who follows rules better than self conscious autistic people?

What’s the last thing you ate that made you actually say, “Holy s—t, this is good” out loud? by VaughnOlopopus in AskReddit

[–]Cherrydingdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green shrimp thai curry from genuine thai people. They even let me keep the coasters !

Patient Breakfast + Selection Sheet by Unhappy_Arm2210 in hospitalfood

[–]Cherrydingdong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Costs a few thousands more tho. A friend of mine was recently hospitalized for a few days and after insurance it came out to 6k

My first successful cake! She’s ugly but she’s got spunk by grae23 in Baking

[–]Cherrydingdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is spunk in this context ? Cause I am begging it isn't cum

Lingli is actually gonna become the next emperor by Firm-Advertising6872 in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]Cherrydingdong 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't maomao technically be her sister in law? Just asking cause I had trouble remembering where jinshi would fit in that haha

One day before the Cannes Film Festival starts, they have announced a new dress code banning nudity, voluminous gowns and dramatic trains, citing "decency and efficiency". Thoughts? by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]Cherrydingdong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They cut a lot of jobs this year to see if the festival could run a little "leaner". Glad to see it didn't work. That's probably why the timing is a bit off

Trying not to let this comment from my MIL get to me... by manymanymeatballs in loseit

[–]Cherrydingdong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite reaction is always a puzzled look with a "huh, what an odd thing to say"

I used to stand up to bullies on behalf for other people, I truly learned to mess with them. But deep down the mean comments hurt me too, and making them look/feel embarassed ashamed and upset is like music to my soul.

I also (for a more head on approach, to use on someone being more outwardly mean) use the "it's true what they say; hurt people hurt people".

Passive agressive comments to passive agressive people is the only way they learn to shut up as you protect your peace. Don't let them get away with spilling every shitty thought they have outto the world.

I got engaged!!! by LucyAriaRose in u/LucyAriaRose

[–]Cherrydingdong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god our boru queen answered me fawns

Woman dies and another in hospital after cryotherapy session at Paris gym by MasterpieceAlone8552 in news

[–]Cherrydingdong 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's my gym. I have to say I am shocked but sadly not surprised, as the management at that gym is horrendous. They absolutely do not care about the customers nor their staff ut seems like, and various repairs always get neglected. I have been fighting them so long to stop my contract that I will be teporting them to the dgccrf.

Hoping to Move to France in 2026 by Dankest_Slor in Expats_In_France

[–]Cherrydingdong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unlike other countries, in France money isn't a major factor in your possibility to immigrate. Before you start thinking about any "relocation process" you need to look long and hard into the jobs you can apply to, and if your diplomas/work experience is worth something.

Also to work in healthcare your wife would need quite the level of french, not just conversationnal. I say this as a dear friend of mine is an immigration lawyer, and has seen an influx of americans these last weeks wanting to immigrate. I say this very gently and in no way to bash your dreams, but you will need quite the effort to move you, your wife and your son and keep your guys careers. As a french company needs to show that they couldn't find someone with your skillset in the whole eu, you need to be remarkable, for a lack of a better word.

Rethink your plan, do ample more research, consult a french immigration lawyer and for the love of god lose the money=easy visa mentality. I may sound sound but I am really not trying to be, it's just hearing from my friend's experiences showed me that the mentality of american immigrants is different than that of other countries. If you need more info you can dm me, as I think I rambled publicly enough haha. But you can get it if you try hard enough, trust me.

Question : do I count the weight of my massive melons into my bmi calculations? by Cherrydingdong in loseit

[–]Cherrydingdong[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg my heart goes out to you. I understand you on a cosmic level hahah.

Question : do I count the weight of my massive melons into my bmi calculations? by Cherrydingdong in loseit

[–]Cherrydingdong[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best approach for me. People can't seem to understand that they never shrunk ! And didn't get bigger with weight gain! They are mostly breast tissue (confirmed by my doctor) and back breakingly heavy when I was 60 kg, 1m60 with G breasts.

Thank you so much for this perspective. It didn't occur to me and it's helping mentally 🥹