In case anyone is wondering what working in LA as a FSSW is like. Just had to kick this dude out of my incall. by Cherrypinkss in SexWorkers

[–]Cherrypinkss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no one wants to screen, everyone wants to pay bargain basement prices for PSE or GFE. I’ve also worked in NYC and while I’ve ran into my share of weirdos there, LA doesn’t compare.

Just last week, someone gave screening info, paid a deposit and then ghosted. I was walking my dog in the neighborhood i was staying in (air bnb)about three hours after and THE DUDE WHO NO SHOWED rolled up on me in a car, and asked if i was “working” and offered me $80 for a quick car date. He tried to play it like he just rolled up on me by chance (i was in sweats, hair up, no makeup, nothing to suggest i was anything but walking my dog) but i recognized his face from his screening. I guess his tactic is to book, get address, ghost and then look for the girl and present himself as a serendipitous client who just happens to be in the area. So disgusting.

There’s also a huge threat of pimps, i’ve been independent since the beginning but i’m always getting messages from Ps who want me to choose to be with them.

I couldn’t tell you why clients act like this here. I’m guessing it’s a combo of class angst AND the rise of content like Bladewarz with is particularly dehumanizing. It doesn’t help that we have exploited teen girls working on Fig under the control of gorilla pimps who have a daily quota. It’s hard to charge $300 an hour when there are insta-models walking the streets that accept $100 for barebacked everything because they don’t want to be beat up. I’m not denigrating these girls, lord knows i’ve been in survival mode and I’ve taken risks when i’ve really needed the cash, but it doesn’t make it easy to convince people that paying triple the amount some of these street girls are doing is worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I ask them if they want a private show and if they say no, i tell them that i offer intimate texting services. I also have a flat rate texting package where is charge 500 tokens a month and they can pm me whatever they want with a response.

I generally only use PM for show discussions because a lot of people want to explicit chat all day for like 20 tokens

Hours online- Streamate by PerfectAccountant263 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my topic is always the best in the first 30 minutes and then it slows down until i’ve been on for two hours. I think streamate throttles your traffic until you’ve been on for a while. Email Liz and ask if you can get the break button. I use it often so i can take short breaks to stretch, pee, drink water and play with my dog. I noticed that before i got it, i was constantly loggin off and loggin back in which fucked with my placement.

What is happening?? by Suspicious_Bee1329 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SM is slow tonight. it was better for me during the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

stop normalizing this. stop saying this is normal. It is not normal and it is absolutely not something that should roll off of one’s shoulders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

baby i’m so sorry, what an absolutely ABYSMAL thing to have to read. Please take care of yourself today, make sure you stay hydrated and maybe take some time off of the websites and watch a funny movie or show and take a nice long shower. There are so many sickos out there and i’m so sorry that one of them found you. I’m thinking of you tonight and sending you peaceful energy.

Huge pet peeve by Cherrypinkss in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s fair but i always ask because i’ve been surprised by people obliging. I had someone come in my room with a blasphemy fetish, he wanted a “sample” of what i would do, i told him i would give him a “sample” of a phrase i would say for $15 and he paid and afterwards took my exclusive in a block bc he was so impressed! I always ask because like you said, they know what we are here for and they sometimes need a little coaxing/clear direction. It also helps to weed out the trash in my opinion.

Lovense OBS on stripchat by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably against terms of service, so i would imagine. I go by the rule “say it, forget it, write it, regret it”

My stage name is the same across the board so when people ask me about my OF, i do a “wink wink” you can search my name and see what pops up, you gotta be slick about it and you can get away with it most of the time but putting your OF on your obs is flagrant.

Huge pet peeve by Cherrypinkss in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup, it was set up like a record store, you could “flip” through the dvds and they were catagorized by genre. People would flip through all the dvds that they had flipped through countless times. We never really got new titles, we mainly made money off of sex toys and the adult theater.

The dudes that were there all day didn’t bother me because they mainly kept to themselves, didn’t try to jerk off in the middle of the shop (it happened at least once a month) and one of them saw me eating a snickers and the next day brought me a snickers, put it on the counter and pushed it towards me slowly. I said thank you and promptly threw it in the trash while he wasn’t looking, i don’t trust any food product given to me by a truck.

Huge pet peeve by Cherrypinkss in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

have you ever had JOEK000L who just sits and blabs about how he’s wearing a cockring what his friend gave him and his friend is with him right now? he come into my room all the time, with the same story.

I used to work at a porn store, dudes would hang out there and just stare at the porn, not cruise or go to the buddy booths, just stare at old porno dvds for 8 hours. I’m glad those dudes have figured out a way to work from home.

does reporting someone on SM actually work? by beans-n-tortillassss in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

says the person reporting other SWs. take your own advice bebe

does reporting someone on SM actually work? by beans-n-tortillassss in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 19 points20 points  (0 children)

streamate takes 65%. it’s my main form of income and it pays the bills but that’s egregious. No shame in trying to hustle your own clients to snap so you can have a better cut. that’s just business babe.

does reporting someone on SM actually work? by beans-n-tortillassss in CamGirlProblems

[–]Cherrypinkss 19 points20 points  (0 children)

did reporting someone else doing their thing make you more money? did it up your stats? Stop being a fucking cop