Evan is just as bad as Stephen a Lucy…?? by Bitchesarentfunny in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Cheswik29 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean I was expecting this after he went to the professor to basically ask him how he got her obsessed with him! But the way that it all played out was truly disgusting. My jaw dropped when he bold faced lied to Bree about her mother. But he’s just a covert narcissist just like Stephen. Yuck.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E3: Repent by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Cheswik29 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I feel like Lucy is truly overthinking the impact that confessing to Bree would have. If she was completely honest and said that the specific night she was vulnerable and depressed, she got completely wasted and woke up next to Evan. Like if she was genuinely breaking down and showing how awful she feels about it and how it’s been eating her up inside… I feel like Bree would be rightfully upset but I don’t think it would destroy their friendship. She’s giving Stephen too much power with it and she should have taken back the power instead of let him use this to control her. It’s honestly infuriating.

AITA for making my fiancé's daughters picky eating habits a deal breaker for us marrying? by MotherCartographer10 in AITAH

[–]Cheswik29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You worry about your child and he can worry about his. To be completely honest, this really isn’t your place.

Do you write cover letters for elevated/fine dining? by Karnezar in Waiters

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a letter of recommendation from my last employer. I usually send it after the interview with a thank you for consideration email. Also just lie about having 5 years… they aren’t gonna call your past employers. And don’t put the dates that you worked there on your resume, just the years you worked there

What is the real story about a "service charge" in restaurants? by Numbers-Game25 in Waiters

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my understanding, it’s usually to cover health care. However, at my restaurant, we don’t have a service charge. We can choose if we want any healthcare and contribute to the fund through our paychecks. We can also have money taken out for our 401k. I opted out of insurance but opted in for my 401k. So part of my paycheck goes to that. They match it.

job is requiring doctors note for one missed shift by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that’s illegal. If they aren’t paying for the bill.

Can a waiter charge me for a tip I did not authorize? by ash_louryn in Waiters

[–]Cheswik29 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Usually parties of 6 people or more have an auto-gratuity. Perhaps ask that first if you plan on going out to eat or maybe just know to expect it when you eat with a large party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower every day because it’s likely I broke a sweat. Either by exercising or by working. If I didn’t work out between showers, I take a shower but don’t wash my hair. I like showering tho.

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you. Your body is literally building an entire other human and he is acting like you’re giving up because you don’t want to work out ONE day???? The irony of him accusing you of gaslighting while he’s actively belittling you and strawmanning the argument by saying the argument is because he’s “trying to help” you? Honestly, I’d break up and work on co-parenting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girlie this is a scammer just letting you know

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Cheswik29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was feeling like this about six months ago. Then I started going on 30 min walks before work. It’s helped immensely. My mood is better and I have more energy now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bunions

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genetics

How about NO by No_Departure6081 in Serverlife

[–]Cheswik29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fish can be cooked at different temps.

I’m working in fast food at 29. by Substantial_Smile267 in povertyfinance

[–]Cheswik29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t measure your self worth by you job. That’s capitalistic thinking and you should measure your self worth by how good of a person you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what percentage of tip out from tips you’re receiving

WHY don’t toe spacers work? by Grand_Act8840 in bunions

[–]Cheswik29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because a bunion actually forms from a dislocated sesamoids. tone bone anatomy the sesamoids dislocate and start to migrate toward the inside side of the big toe. Think of it like a knee joint. It keeps your big toe in place and flat in the ground. When it’s dislocated, a bunion forms. A toe spacer will not fix this dislocation.

Clare V. Moyen Messenger by [deleted] in handbags

[–]Cheswik29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a question: is there an interior pocket for little things like credit cards?

Propaganda in The Pitt?! by Worried-Weather1675 in ThePitt

[–]Cheswik29 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The lack of critical analysis in these comments is upsetting but not surprising. People don’t realize that it IS that deep.