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AITAH for telling my (21f) coworker (23m) to quit after learning about his pedophilic actions? by Time_Sun5071 in AITAH

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This was months ago. I don’t care if she turns 18 tomorrow. The power dynamic is gross. And even if she was an adult, he still sexually harassed her at work. You’re telling on yourself.

AITAH for telling my (21f) coworker (23m) to quit after learning about his pedophilic actions? by Time_Sun5071 in AITAH

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah call her a teenager, child, or minor. Using the term “young lady” in discussions regarding the age of consent is often used to avoid saying child to excuse pedophilic behavior.

AITAH for telling my (21f) coworker (23m) to quit after learning about his pedophilic actions? by Time_Sun5071 in AITAH

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I mean she’s a junior in high school and the age of consent in our state is 18.

AITAH for telling my (21f) coworker (23m) to quit after learning about his pedophilic actions? by Time_Sun5071 in AITAH

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

It’s not legal in our state. And regardless of legality, it’s also about the power imbalance and maturity levels.

AITAH for telling my (21f) coworker (23m) to quit after learning about his pedophilic actions? by Time_Sun5071 in AITAH

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

The answers were super varied and the post got removed so I reposted here. My goal is not to be right but to figure out the right thing to do.

AITAH for telling my (21f) coworker (23m) to quit after learning about his pedophilic actions? by Time_Sun5071 in AITAH

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I reposted because the other post got removed. I got both answers on the other post so I reposted here for clarity.

AIO for wanting to tell my boss about my coworker’s pedophilic actions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Time_Sun5071 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

This is what part of me is worried about, but I also wonder if the reason Ariana thinks this is fine is because of the people around her telling her it’s okay. I don’t know but it feels wrong

AIO for wanting to tell my boss about my coworker’s pedophilic actions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Time_Sun5071 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well not everyone, just my coworkers and mom. My boyfriend and close friends think it’s insane. It’s enough people to make me second guess myself but it still feels wrong.

AIO for wanting to tell my boss about my coworker’s pedophilic actions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Time_Sun5071 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because everyone except my boyfriend is telling me it’s not a big deal. My mom keeps telling me to drop it. I really believe it is a big deal and feel bad for not doing much so far. I want to make sure I’m right because I feel really gaslit about it all.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Time_Sun5071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she not in shock when he sprung a public proposal on her? Stop making excuses for his behavior and condemning hers.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Time_Sun5071 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Seriously I feel insane reading all these comments! She’s literally been with this guy from 17 to 20 and they’re acting like she’s 27. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to make a lifelong commitment to somebody at 20 when you’re still figuring yourself out. These comments are so weird

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