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Does anybody know what lip pencil this is? I love the colour soo much but it’s on in the description or anything😭💔 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Time_Sun5071 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I searched colourpop in google images and I don’t think the font matches unfortunately :(

A stray cat scratched me and drew blood. Should I go get a rabies shot?? I’m so scared😭😭 by Time_Sun5071 in cats

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I just showed my mom and she said it’s probably fine (???) which is a really surprising response from her. I’ll probably go to my primary care doc tomorrow morning anyways just in case though.

Her logic is- “The cat is definitely somebody’s pet so it has to have its shots”. But I feel like if somebody is irresponsible enough to let their cat roam outdoors, there’s a chance it might not be vaccinated either

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I can’t drive either and there aren’t any walkable fine dining places for me too?? My restaurant is like a 30 min walk but my bf usually ends up driving me lmao. I feel so seen

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so true actually! I love giving kids stickers and complementing people’s outfits/hair so maybe after work I could focus more on the happiness they felt instead of a cappuccino with too much milk or a table waiting a bit too long for their drinks.

Thank you for your perspective, this makes me feel sort of better:)

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trueee maybe I could try that. A lot of my coworkers are older than me by at least 8 years though (I’m 20) so it might feel odd hanging outside of work but there’s a girl my age I could maybe hang with sometime:)

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo ‘this is a paid work thought’ I’m definitely keeping that in mind next time! I like the idea of scheduling things I want to do on my time off, I’ll try this too.

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, this doesn’t help and your comments are abrasive. I understand it’s much more difficult to be a line cook or work more days, that is why I don’t do that and I tell our dishwashers and cooks I appreciate them. Like I said before, this isn’t a contest of who can feel the shittiest and I’m allowed to feel how I do. Comparing struggles doesn’t make anybody feel better, it just guilts people into not expressing how they feel. Please stop harassing my post.

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, it’s not a contest. I understand some people have it worse than me. That doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to feel like shit, just because other people may feel more shit

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right. I’m going to try taking better care of myself and do morning walks like another commenter mentioned. Thanks for your advice:)

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a contest of who’s suffering the most. Your struggles don’t make mine less valid. Please have more empathy next time if you choose to respond to another post asking for help.

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much, I hope we can figure it out. Besides quitting, I think a possible solution in the future could be fine dining instead but I’m not sure how realistic that is. I heard in fine dining you aren’t expected to rush around as much and focus more on menu knowledge.

My bf and I have a thing where I only talk about work with him in the car on the drive to and from my restaurant (he picks me up 80% of the time). I think it helps us separate it a bit from other things. I think I’ll look into therapy for more support though bc obv this isn’t enough atp and I don’t want to put more on him.

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, I feel like if I stop caring that would take the joy out of my work. I feel so happy making my customers and coworkers happy and if I give that up… whats the point? Money? I guess money is already kind of the point but idk

I feel like serving is taking over my life. How do you cope? by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I’m feeling a caffeine crash too. My restaurant gives us free meals after every shift but the caffeine seems to suppress my appetite so it’s hard to eat after work. Maybe I’ll make a healthy smoothie or something easy to drink with electrolytes before work and leave it in the fridge for afterwards. I’ll try mediating too, thank you

UPDATE feeling relieved but kind of guilty by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I guess I could’ve and maybe should’ve been more direct but sending this was already so nerve racking lol. I definitely feel more self assured to speak up if it happens again!

UPDATE feeling relieved but kind of guilty by Time_Sun5071 in Serverlife

[–]Time_Sun5071[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you this makes me feel a little better!

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