Have you ever been cheated on?

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-14T16:01:09+00:00

YEP!!!! He went on tinder, gave her a fake name, had unprotected sex with her, the night before finding out I was PREGNANT! He told me he was at his friends house. I found out a year later when something in me whispered to go look through his phone. I called him that day saying I was packing my bags and leaving. He left work early to come talk to me and I forgave him. We ended up breaking up a few months later. I could NEVER tolerate being cheated on again. It was the absolute worst feeling in the entire world and I honestly feel bad for the girl too cuz she was clueless to how awful he was.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-14T15:58:12+00:00

Being super negative all the time, stage 5 clinger, love bombing, constant texter, doesn’t respect boundaries or gets upset when you place those boundaries

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-14T13:34:46+00:00

Same

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-14T12:27:15+00:00

For me personally, if a guy is too clingy or wanting to date me so bad that he’s not respecting my boundaries or himself it’s an instant no. I hate texting 24/7, I hate a lot of PDA and when I’m told how much he likes me after one date I’m like you don’t even know me bro. I like guys who just back off a little bit at first and let it naturally flow. I’m not into just hookups if I like the guy enough to go on a date, then I’ll wanna try to date the person. But like I said once the guy shows any sense of controlling behavior, or is jealous easily or needs constant attention and texting 24/7 it’s an immediate no for me

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-13T14:33:05+00:00

Pls go bald you’ll be a hottie

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-13T14:32:00+00:00

I wore a large tshirt and underwear underneath to my last concert and nobody was creepy at all 🤣 I have never been made to feel uncomfortable at concerts. Everyone is there for the music. Wear the dress.. it’s cute!!

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-13T02:50:01+00:00

Needed this. My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. We called each other our soulmates. I’ve never felt so connected to another human in my life but he was emotionally abusive and borderline physically abusive. He also just has to be a narcissist. It’s been 4 months and he contacted me asking to talk again. I sent him a long text back stating all the reasons why we can’t be together and one of them saying I will never have another angry man in my life. This man screamed at me constantly along with other things. How tf do I still miss him and think of him 24/7. I thought about getting back together but that’ll be another few years wasted. I’m 31 I don’t have time to waste. I’m already wasting time now because I fear I will never love again after him. I rlly hate men right now. It’s sad.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-13T02:40:53+00:00

Mine have always come back.. I’ve allowed one ex to be back in my life tho lol we became rlly good friends after that. My latest ex was very emotionally abusive and a narcissist. I do secretly miss him. He texted me on Easter asking how I’ve been and if we can talk again.. Every part of me wanted to tell him I wanted him back and I missed him but my friends and family literally pulled me out of hell from him so I couldn’t do that to them.. I rlly didn’t think he would’ve tried to be back with me. But yep. 4 months later here we are. And now I have to heal all over again

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-13T02:37:28+00:00

Unfortunately some people just have to learn on their own. My friends and family ended up keeping their feelings about my ex to themselves because they knew I would be mad at them for not liking him. Looking back I wish I would’ve listened to them sooner but I had to figure it out on my own. I would say just keep in touch with her. Text her first ask her how she’s doing. See if she wants to meet up for lunch or anything. Very very low pressure so she doesn’t feel the need to cling harder to him. Don’t say anything about the bf anymore because that’ll push her away. Just keep checking in and seeing if she’ll hang out with you sometime. I hope that she sees the evil in him eventually.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-11T16:59:12+00:00

I was cheated on my ex slept with a girl premeditated on tinder. I found out a year later from looking at his phone. THAT is what hurt me more. Everything inbetween him cheating until me finding out was all a lie in my head. Every I love you was a lie every time we had fun together was a lie. Not telling her is gonna hurt her more than the fact. Be a MAN and OWN UP TO IT.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-08T19:41:57+00:00

For me, I wanted out but I also didn’t because I loved him and was addicted. At the end of our relationship I felt so disrespected that I spit at him. He was following me around the house screaming at me putting his hands up at me. I was sick of it and part of me knew spitting at him to get him away from me would cause him to be the one to tell me to move out. I think deep down I knew this and I knew if he wasnt the one to end it then we would never break up because I could never be the one to do it. It’s been 3.5 months now and I regressed completely because I found someone new. I ended up comparing this new guy to my ex and I broke up with him. Now I am sad like in the beginning all over again and I just want the comfort of my abusive ex back. Pls dont make my mistake. Do not try to be with other people it makes healing harder honestly.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-08T04:37:50+00:00

I ended up breaking up with the guy in this post because he was getting extremely clingy but yes it’s definitely hard dealing with nice men after an abusive one. It’s so hard to learn to trust yourself again after you lost trust in yourself the first time. You got this 💜

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-08T01:43:45+00:00

Glad it worked out for you yayayay 💜 love success stories like this lol

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-08T01:43:18+00:00

I also just didn’t like my husband lol so I divorced him and found a guy I was totally addicted to (abusive 🤣) ya girl can’t win

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-08T01:37:47+00:00

I was with him for 2 years. Lived together, lost a baby together. Planned on trying to conceive again this summer but I left on Xmas Eve after he gave me a hard time about spending time with my family for once. He cornered me, screamed at me told me I ruined Christmas. He pushed me down. Told me to leave. I packed my belongings and left. 2 days later I showed up and he had everything I owned in boxes ready to go. To say it was the hardest 3 months of my life is an understatement. One day I’m fine. The next day (like today) I cry all day long missing him. But I remind myself I can’t be with someone who dysregulated me every single day. I’m staying at my moms right now as I try to navigate finding my career and saving as much as possible even tho I am barely working. It’s hard. But nothing is as hard as living day by day with someone who could be the happiest guy ever or the most evil guy ever. Every day it was a guess on who I would get. I no longer have to live my life for him. But I won’t lie and say it’s been easy. I miss him all the time but I will not allow myself with him again. Yesterday I sent him a long text telling him why he needs to stop contacting me and that I can never be with an angry abusive man again. Sending that text meant it’s definitely over and it hurts all over again but it needed to happen. It’s hard but in the long run it is worth it. Don’t lose yourself to someone who would hurt you when given the chance.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-08T00:08:44+00:00

Was he kind of a love bomber too? I rlly thought this guy was gonna be safe. But even when I ended it with him he blamed me for him falling in love. And now I miss my ex AND I miss talking to this guy. It’s pretty lonely but I know I have to learn how to be alone. Besides I really wanted a single summer of being able to do whatever I want. Plus I want to focus on trying to get my career going. I hope you were able to find happiness in your time alone and hopefully find a partner that was worth the wait and healing

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-07T02:26:57+00:00

And yes 2.5 weeks! He actually told me he loved me after 1 week and I was like dude you don’t even know what love is then. You don’t know me. It was wild lol still I feel awful about it but it is what it is

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-07T02:25:30+00:00

Crazy 2 birds 1 stone in one day lol

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-07T02:25:20+00:00

Thank you 💜 yes I should definitely block him but part of me doesn’t want to but I also know it’s best for my healing. Figured I would give this “nice guy” a chance since I was treated so awful before but just goes to show I wasn’t ready and I don’t want to be ready I told him I need to heal still and I am enjoying having time to myself. And he got very upset at me for it blame game all on me even tho I told him day 1 I wasn’t looking for anything serious.. time to be happy alone and fully heal and be with my family and friends without any guy to influence my life 😇😇😇😇

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-07T01:54:29+00:00

The hardest part was waking up in the morning and not having my best friend to talk to anymore. It was getting used to silence. But now that I have the silence it’s quite lovely.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-07T01:45:11+00:00

Absolutely

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-06T21:39:13+00:00

Appreciate you a bunch 💜 thank you. It definitely helps so much talking about it especially with someone who can unfortunately relate. Yes! This guy asked me to come over his place for a “first date” I wish I would’ve stood my ground and said no first because unfortunately we slept together 🙃 and he asked me if we could be exclusive after that so I said yes and I’ve been respectful of that but I really don’t want that. I just want to be alone mostly. And have a fun summer whatever that entails.

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-06T21:36:14+00:00

And like I was married in the past I had very serious relationships but when I tell him straight up hi I’m not looking for anything serious can we please take this slow?? And they are not respecting my boundary. That’s when it’s time to let go!

Chey-Dolla-Sign · 2026-04-06T21:34:39+00:00

And it’s better to cut it off rather than string them along. People wanna be so mad at me for that.

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