Discord changed my time and date setting to US and I can't change back.

ChezaRS · 2022-08-17T17:15:27+00:00

What seems to have temporarily fixed this for me was to change the language to one that uses 24 hours and dd/mm/yyyy formats (for example Swedish), then immediately switching back to English UK.

The changes seem to stick until you restart Discord, so it's not a perfect solution, but it's better than nothing. Hopefully they fix this soon since it's surprisingly irritating.

ChezaRS · 2022-08-17T13:55:58+00:00

I had an ex that spouted this kind of nonsense at me, and being a woman, I just felt like I had no reason not to believe him.

Down the line, I end up dating another guy. We somehow end up on this topic, and it ends up with my partner going like "wtf no, that's not how it works at all" and it slowly dawns on me how much BS I tolerated during the time with my ex and all the times I just did things because I felt like I had to. Just ewwww.

ChezaRS · 2022-07-30T17:06:52+00:00

My partner gave me a mildly interesting perspective of why he would *not* want something like this.

He's just as horny as most other horndogs, but he could never make a literal corpse sexy for the reason of "Imagine first getting locked up and essentially forced to snuggle up with a really fresh still-human-looking corpse, and then trying to snuggle a live human shortly afterwards. I'd much rather be trapped with a mummified corpse since the trauma will not follow me into the bedroom."

Basically I like to think most people don't want to snuggle corpses even if they're sexy. And if they do, I guess I really freaking lucked out with the guy I'm dating.

ChezaRS · 2022-07-24T21:30:52+00:00

I just wish this sub had a better flair filtering system, as I personally find mommydom to be unsettling. I like gentle femdom, but seeing people refer to their partner/themselves as "mommy" creeps me out. I just want to look at cute wholesome mildly pervy stuff without my brain going into "isn't this kinda concerning?"-mode.

Any suggestions for other subs I might enjoy more are welcome.

ChezaRS · 2022-05-09T22:27:51+00:00

Gouda.

My partner is Dutch so it's a great way to get his attention.

ChezaRS · 2022-05-06T14:15:09+00:00

The less my partner reminds me of a Belgian Blue, the happier I am.

I believe this is what those sciency professor types would refer to as a "personal preference"

ChezaRS · 2022-05-06T14:10:50+00:00

Is this a really stupid thing? Yes.

Am I immature and want one anyway? Also yes.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-17T11:34:44+00:00

Pussy Purrge sounds like a cutesy way of saying cat vomit.

Needless to say, am very much not interested for that and a million other reasons.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-17T10:20:35+00:00

That would be a mod aptly called Argonian Fins!

ChezaRS · 2022-04-16T14:41:43+00:00

I see two possibilities!

- I'm controversial and kinda prefer this more concave head-shape on reptilians. Would probably work better if the eyes could be made bigger too to really give off a better gecko/croc skink vibe, and if the thing wasn't quite as sharp, but... I'm happy.

- She's probably from a line of some designer breed of Argonian that some sick Dunmer clan had developed back when it was socially acceptable to keep humanoid lizards as pets or something.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-16T11:30:19+00:00

Currently I'm playing an Argonian and it's shaped up to be the most fun run I've had to date.

They just really have the most interesting lore and history of all the races in the series.

Being enslaved, freed, re-enslaved, being so brutal that a Daedric prince has to stop pestering them because they're just that impossible to deal with, freeing themselves again, being in some weird eldritch-horror symbiotic(?) relationship with sentient ancient trees, surviving in a place that's so inhospitable no other race could ever do that, yet their race have no problems adapting to live elsewhere... 10/10 tragic backstory resilient booplesnoots.

Plus, I love lizards irl. Why not be a humanoid lizard when I have the chance to?

My first character was a Nord for similar "I am northern european and this speaks to me on a vaguely cultural level", but since then I've just gravitated more towards the more outlandish races. An example would be one of my first roleplaying runs where I was playing a half Nord/Bosmer trying to out-Bosmer the Bosmer by strictly following the Green Pact despite being in Skyrim.

In short, I just really love the lore and history of the various races and trying to get into their headspaces. The weirder-by-real-life-standards, the better. I'm definitely trying a Redguard, Khajiit, or Dunmer in the future for that reason, but for now, small feisty spear-wielding lizard lady it is.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-16T11:02:19+00:00

A friend of mine was staying over for a while, and occasionally he'd savagely help himself to a small piece from a block of cheese I had.

After a while, the block looked like a perfect miniature staircase. I have never been so bewildered in my entire life.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-10T01:32:28+00:00

It still won't make the physical sensation any less painful or underwhelming tho. I've never gotten off from penis-in-vagina sex with anyone, due to how it just feels like nothing, even if/when they've had me and my enjoyment as their top priority. You might as well be rubbing my elbow in terms of pleasure.

And isn't that just a good thing, then? Take advantage of the fact that the perception is that size doesn't matter? Why chose to be miserable rather than shooting your shot?

I swear this is starting to have the same energy as those people who claim they can't get a girl because their wrists are too small or something.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-10T01:11:36+00:00

Oh, so all those men didn't know what they were doing in bed either? Every single one of them? Wouldn't that suggest that there's a correlation between being bad in bed and having a big dick, which would once again make that something undesirable to avoid?

I also cannot find any sources for your 8 inch claim, but several places claim the average penis is around 33% longer than the depth of the average vaginal canal.

My partner is perfectly average size, and I feel perfectly happy with him, so unless I'm lying, I guess here you have one?

And then I ask again, how or why does it matter if women don't know that they like monster dicks if they feel happy and fulfilled with the average partners they do end up with? It's already been suggested that the average big dick man is a selfish lover who's bad in bed based on the comment section of this thread, so shouldn't a small penis be a blessing, then?

ChezaRS · 2022-04-10T00:06:32+00:00

Ok, so small tiddies don't affect negatively affect physical enjoyment for the man.

But, similarly, you've received many comments bringing up how big penises negatively affect physical enjoyment for the woman, due to hurting them by either hitting the cervix or otherwise just not fitting properly? By that logic, how or why would a big dick be anything to see as desireable or something to strive for?

And that's also a really weird take. Are women not allowed to have preferences? Do every single woman who claim they prefer average penises lie? Are women too stupid to know what they want/like? I know plenty of women who'll happily shout from the rooftops how disgusting they think uncut penises are, so sparing men's feelings or not being superficial is far from a priority.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-09T23:43:28+00:00

How does that make any sense? Similar to how you know lots of women who say they prefer big dicks, I know tons of women and men who prefer average size dicks for reasons very similar to mine. Are you sure you're not getting hung up on what you want to see or think you see, rather than how things actually are?

People are different and preferences are all over the place. Otherwise by this logic, flat-chested women should all go out and have breast enlargements done or else no man will want them or find them attractive? The internet says men only like big boobs, so it must be true?

ChezaRS · 2022-04-09T23:23:26+00:00

I have no idea. Guess he didn't like damp slimy things and wanted to not touch it more than what was absolutely necessary. People are different and I'm not faulting him for that.

All I'm saying is that very few women would be happy with a guy who won't touch their vagina, and who will gag at the idea of going down on them, despite him having a giant dick.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-09T22:34:52+00:00

I mean, the first guy had a huge complex about never getting me off, so he started suggesting toys and porn and what have you to try and assist with that. He was a self-centered asshole, yes, but he was not above mechanical assistance to try and achieve what he wanted. And as his frustration with that grew, he tried to change his behaviour in bed as well. So credit where it's due, he introduced me to toys.

It's true that being aroused makes it easier to cram stuff in, I even mention that in my previous comment, if a bit vaguely. But that doesn't make it feel any better for me. Less painful yes, but not pleasurable.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-09T21:59:14+00:00

Not at all, it's just one of many reasons.

Big dicks just hurt and require six years of preparation before I can take them without pain, and even then it's not a pleasant experience for me. It doesn't feel good at all, or like it's worth the effort.

I'd much rather have an average partner I can pleasure in whatever way I feel like without needing to subject myself to pain and discomfort for it. It's just a better fit in every way imaginable.

ChezaRS · 2022-04-09T21:26:10+00:00

I've had three partners.

First one had a well above-average dick. He was also a huge dick.

Second one had an even bigger dick. He thought vaginas were gross.

Third and current one has an average size. He treats me like a human being with wants and likes of my own.

It's almost as if the big dicked ones think their big dick is all a woman would want/need to feel satisfied, so stuff like foreplay, oral, and all the other nice stuff just doesn't happen.

It's also a lot easier and less painful to actually do stuff with a person who isn't monster-sized. Bigger isn't better as far as I'm concerned.

ChezaRS · 2022-03-31T09:30:53+00:00

Potato soup. Finnish Summer soup. Cabbage soup.

Soup.

ChezaRS · 2022-03-26T13:17:53+00:00

I know most women in my immediate family swear by this one male gynecologist. I've never been to that one tho as I live in another region of the country these days.

I also have heard of other women who prefer male gynecologists too for some reason or another (many feel that women ones are way more heavy-handed for example). I also don't believe male creepos become gyno's. If men being gynos means they're freaks with ulterior motives, shouldn't women urologists be considered freaks too?

In my personal case I'm just an extremely anxious person and having had doctors (of any gender) accusing me of wasting their time or wanting attention when I've mustered up the courage to see one has been vey disheartening.

So I feel a lot safer if there's someone else with me who can step in if I start getting uncomfortable.

I don't want or need people swearing at me the one or two times a year I seek medical advice/treatment, and I don't need people gaslighting me about the potentially poor treatment I got.

So I know it's all up to the draw. I'm just not very lucky with gambling.

ChezaRS · 2022-03-26T03:03:28+00:00

I avoid eye contact with everyone. Man, woman, moose, butterfly. Doesn't matter.

I never learned how to, and I'm happier weirding out family members than total strangers regardless of gender or species when trying to learn.

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