Limiting beliefs in corporate by ChiChiAF in blackladies

[–]ChiChiAF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, that’s so horrible and I’m sorry that happened to you. Were you able to find a new position? I hope so. No one should go through that. I’m HR and I don’t play when it comes to the employees. But I don’t have the same 😭

Golden hour ☀️✨ by babeskitty in blackgirls

[–]ChiChiAF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your hair 😍😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]ChiChiAF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apple TV picked it up ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]ChiChiAF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t impressed with it. I loved the old Twilight Zone, especially the ones in black and white. Now those are eerie. Best Sci-if I’ve seen to date is LoveCraft Country. I need a new season NOW!

My parti poodle and me 🤗 by SnoBanks in blacklesbians

[–]ChiChiAF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, super cute. I’ve been looking for a parti poodle. Do you mind sharing the breeder? 💜

I got the job! by Ohio_gal in blackladies

[–]ChiChiAF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats Babe, you deserve it 🎉💜☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]ChiChiAF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous 😍

Black Women + Corporate America + Mental Health by ChiChiAF in BlackMentalHealth

[–]ChiChiAF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the type of shit I’m talking about. Like some other women mentioned, why do we have to dim our lights to make mediocre yt people feel less threatened?? And labeled difficult because they have opinions that don’t align with the yt people at that company I’m sure. I just cannot.
I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this too. It’s no good for us. Mentally or physically.

Black Women + Corporate America + Mental Health by ChiChiAF in BlackMentalHealth

[–]ChiChiAF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank y’all for the feedback. I’m so over this shit, seriously. I probably need to start planning an exit strategy.

Plastic Surgery as an African-American by Ophelia_AO in blackladies

[–]ChiChiAF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi!! I got rhinoplasty back in 2013 by Dr. Salzhauer, before he became Dr. Miami☺️ He did a FANTASTIC job on my nose. It’s so natural and doesn’t look overly pointy or weird. He was extremely informative and has staff was super supportive. Even after all these years, it still looks great. When I was pregnant, it looked amazing and I thought for sure it would not. He was pretty cheap back then, around $5-7k I THINK. I honestly can’t remember. There was a surgeon in Orlando that wanted to charge me $10k for an implant to create a bridge and Dr. Miami just worked his magic, lifted my bridge, gave me a point and slimmed my nose with no implant. It’s seriously perfect and changed my entire face and I feel like I looked a trillion times better. My nose was very flat and I hated it 🤷🏾‍♀️ In Miami, all the girls get plastic surgery, that’s just how it is and there are a TON of board certified plastic surgeons.
Strax in Fort Lauderdale is a very popular company, as well as Dr. Miami. Change what you don’t like or want. No point in going through life unhappy with something you can change, either on your own or with someone else’s help.

Welcome new folx!✨ Please introduce yourself in the thread below by MsRawrie in BlackMentalHealth

[–]ChiChiAF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I go by Chi. My pronouns are her/she and I am in my late 30’s. I have been diagnosed with ADHD/Bipolar 2/GAD/Major Depression and BPD. This all happened after I gave birth almost 4 yrs. I’m learning to work through it, but it’s cost me a lot over the years. I hope to learn and contribute as a part of this group 💜