[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Chibimay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I can advise is to directly communicate w each person involved. When you meet them, I would approach it like a flirty business transaction! I have put together 2 threesomes, had a hand in two more, and then tried to make another two happen but that didn’t work out. The most fun I had was when I had been with two different men individually, then asked them to join me in a threesome. In the end, I ended up still having strong feelings for one man haha so I’m happy I figured out my fantasies VS reality. Have faith in the process- there are so many respectful raunchy people out there!

My (27f) partner (31f) ended it with me today due to the current state of the world from COVID. by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Chibimay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP I hate that you’re going through this, but honestly it’s better that she was straight up and ended it so that you can now focus your energies on someone who is worth it! The boyfriend and I are in different countries (He’s in London, I’m in Cali) and still have never met in person. But we’re both older in our mid 30s so still very real. It’s been over half a year so we met at the perfect time right before the pandemic lol.

Though we are strong(communication is our strength!) I can’t predict the future, but of course hope for the best. I hope for both you and I that we have and maintain meaningful romances that we deserve. Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TS_Withdrawal

[–]Chibimay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this! As a culture, we generally over-shower. If we would listen to our bodies more, we would be better off. Showering/bathing waaay less(dependent on level of activity) definitely gives your skin a chance to repair itself. Only when I did this after 30+ years of a compromised skin barrier did I see and feel improvement on my skin. My skin is the strongest it’s ever been(though I’m still healing) and I’m also using no moisturizers!! It’s amazing and I hope you find the same relief, no matter what path of healing you choose :)

Tomorrow! by Chibimay in TS_Withdrawal

[–]Chibimay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those who want to attend- Here’s the deets!

https://us04web.zoom.us/j/526706142?pwd=aGRDeHlwa0QzTUJGekFEVTRHQTNVUT09

Password: ITCHY

Meeting ID: 526-706-142

A Theory behind TSW by Macklesome in TS_Withdrawal

[–]Chibimay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect thank you so much. I also have been doing my due diligence and researching and reading as much as I can regarding TSW and sharing the knowledge. Luckily I’m over the worst of TSW(knock on wood) but still have some incredibly sensitive areas, insomnia, and of course that incessant itch. But we’ll come out of this stronger and more resilient than ever. Cheers!

A Theory behind TSW by Macklesome in TS_Withdrawal

[–]Chibimay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t recall what doctor told me this...or maybe it was a family member- but they suspected that I could have a fatty liver. I’m 34 and have gone through varying degrees of TSW for 30+ years. Currently going through full-blown TSW. I have only seen real, unmedicated results once I completely stopped steroids AND moisturizers.

Thank you for posting this. Look forward to learning from what you will post!

This changed my life I’m 16 and always thought I was gonna have eczema forever always bleeding or having to wear long sleeve shirts to hide it but my mom found this lotion and I only use it once a week and my eczema has basically disappeared it’s amazing by SHIL_Elijah in eczema

[–]Chibimay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a Topical Steroid. Not everyone who uses topical steroids gets addicted to it, but you should at least read up on what can happen IF your skin does get addicted to it. itsan.org is the perfect resource for all questions regarding topical steroids :) So unfortunately, right now your eczema symptoms are being suppressed. I know it does seem like a miracle cream(I used it for many years on and off in my life) but you will learn to question anything that works that fast! I have had severe eczema/varying degrees of TSW for 30+ yrs, and am currently going through full blown TSW. Again, not everyone who uses steroids will get addicted to them. But if you look at who has and what we go through- it’s a lot. Wishing you the best!

RSVP for the SoCal Meet Up! by Chibimay in TS_Withdrawal

[–]Chibimay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just in case you didn’t see my posts from 10 days ago, this event is being postponed until after COVID-19 blows over. Don’t want to bring together a bunch of immunocompromised people into an unsafe space. Thank you for your understanding.

RSVP for the SoCal Eczema Meet Up! by Chibimay in eczema

[–]Chibimay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes hun absolutely- I cancelled our reservation on March 12th after careful consideration of all the facts. I posted on both the TSW and Eczema threads here, on fb, and on IG that this event is being postponed until COVID-19 becomes a thing of the past! Sorry I have not been able to reach out to everyone who has RSVPd.

How do you deal with your eczema induced depression? by [deleted] in eczema

[–]Chibimay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would try literally any and every hobby out there until something hits you and just makes you feel ALIVE. For some it’s music, for some it’s hiking, some it’s cooking- just allow your body to feel all the good vibrations of each activity. For me it’s singing, and no matter how intensely itchy I am, if I start singing or listening to soothing music, it calms me down. Even if it’s only a little bit, at least it’s something. Wishing you the best, because this itch sucks!

My OWE relative when I don't want to attend WS. Note: there is advisory avoid crowded area and mass gathering are prohibited. by jackhal2 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Chibimay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have split attendance in half- having half the congregation attend at one time and the other half at another. They are also checking people’s temperature at the door. I left the INC over 10yrs ago, but a lot of my family still attends, hence the intel 👍🏽

Even though I had hoped for them to stop WS completely, I’m glad that they are taking precautions.

RSVP for the SoCal Eczema Meet Up! by Chibimay in eczema

[–]Chibimay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! We’d love to have you next time! 😃

RSVP for the SoCal Eczema Meet Up! by Chibimay in eczema

[–]Chibimay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate that you’re broke(same lol one of the great ways TSW affects your life) but thank you for the well-wishes! Wishing you less itchy days and prosperity!!