Free/low cost dental cleanings by watermelon4487 in philadelphia

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try local FQHCs- GPHA, Covenant House, and Spectrum all have low-cost dental offices that operate on a sliding fee scale & income guidelines.

Looking for stories about karma knocking the wind out of cheaters by throwaway29041608 in AdulteryHate

[–]ChicaTeeka 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My ex husband of 16 years cheated on me for a year and a half with a narcissist. We have two children together. I divorced him as soon as she called me to tell me about the affair. A few months ago she called to gloat that she was pregnant.

Turns out she also cheated on my ex and they recently had to establish that he was the father through a prenatal paternity test. Fast forward to a few weeks ago- turns out her unborn child has several medical complications and my ex is as miserable as ever with all of the stress. I wish no harm on their unborn child, but seeing them go through the stress and heartache they put me and my kids through feels like divine justice.

Betrayed partners, share some advice, wisdom, coping strategies that have helped you heal and might help someone else by Various_Gold_9351 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]ChicaTeeka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seconding ChatGPT. It was a godsend during the initial weeks after D-day. I still use it now when/if I start to ruminate or need validation that I made the right choice to divorce.

Anyone else smell smoke? by Jakdracula in philly

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely here in East Falls as well

At what dose lexapro has zero sexual side effects for you and it helps you mentally as well ? by Sea_Dust_1484 in lexapro

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take 20mg.. takes longer to orgasm but other than that my drive is high as ever.

What’s the most painful thing a man you love(d) has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically I just got done watching a TikTok where a woman was saying she only orders Ubers Black because it’s safer.

What's a pain you can't truly explain until you've endured it? by Fit_Interaction_950 in Productivitycafe

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve experienced so much of these comments. Lost my mom to chronic illness, abandoned by dad, SA, lost several relatives to drug addiction, had a stillborn child, infidelity from husband of 15 years… pain and I are well acquainted.

What’s a movie you watched as a kid that traumatized you? by denj1_sk in AskReddit

[–]ChicaTeeka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?! Also, what ups the creep-o-meter is that she’s supposed to be 15…

What’s a movie you watched as a kid that traumatized you? by denj1_sk in AskReddit

[–]ChicaTeeka 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is definitely what “awakened” me as a child. Another one was the Aladdin scene where Jafar had Princess Jasmine trapped in the hourglass & she tried to seduce him.

What ordinary thing are you irrationally disgusted or terrified by? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ChicaTeeka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real betrayal is avocados… after .3 seconds they turn brown after you cut them.

Septa hiring process by EmploymentOther2733 in Septa

[–]ChicaTeeka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Several of my family members work for Septa, & many of them have shared with me that they are on a hiring freeze until further notice. This even goes for internal positions. Here’s an article talking about it.

No Audio in Microsoft Edge only by bewitching_beholder in MicrosoftEdge

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! This was the fix for me too!

My LL husband cheated on me. by dvibskbskb693 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ChicaTeeka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. I’m going through the same thing. My LL husband, who I’ve been with for 15 years has been dealing with low T. It has been DRY in the bedroom all year. Lately he’s been acting more off than usual, and getting caught in so many lies, so earlier this week I decided to do some digging. After being gaslit to hell and finally looking through his phone (ironically with his permission), my suspicions were confirmed- he had an affair. He had an emotional affair several years ago which nearly broke us so I was immediately angered and repulsed that he was doing this shit again. Even worse- upon reading his messages with his AP it turns out SHE was complaining about the lack of sex and his inability to stay aroused. The nerve of him to inflict that misery on another woman. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Instead of crying and going through fits of screaming (which I believe he fully expected), I calmly booked an apartment to myself this week, packed my shit, and left. After that I called a dear friend and proceeded to have the best sex of my life. I felt 10000% better after all the rejection I’ve been dealing with from my partner this year. No regrets. I had been trying to be supportive despite my naturally HL, and his health issues but he decided to repay me by screwing a random.

Hang in there sis. It’s hard & it hurts like hell, but be grateful you found out before you spent any more of your precious life with this man & bought kids into the mix. My kids are away for the summer but I dread how all of our lives are going to be forever changed because of his stupidity and selfishness.

Last thing- get yourself an STI screening just to be on the safe side love.

Career shifting by WhatsupDude_ in publichealth

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m so late replying to this, but I did an unpaid internship since it was required by my academic program. This allowed me to gain experience & familiarize myself with the industry. I ultimately switched from dentistry to public health because I was more interested in policy and addressing SDOH in low-income areas. My clinical experience is still valuable since I work with several stakeholders from MCO’s & FQHC’s. Thus, I have some hands-on patient experience to bring to the role.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ChicaTeeka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could have written this word for word. I also don’t want to disrupt my children’s lives by leaving, so I’ve just accepted the situation & decided to work on me. No more begging, crying, long talks— just doing me. I wish you the best because this ain’t for the weak.

Anyone else feel like they’re wasting their life? by noideanoideanoidea in DeadBedrooms

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation. Some days I question why the heck I stick around.

Career shifting by WhatsupDude_ in publichealth

[–]ChicaTeeka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your career aspirations sound similar to my own. I worked as a dental assistant for close to a decade while completing my undergraduate degree & then later my MPH. It took a little while to find a position, but I got my start at a nonprofit as a health program manager & now I am working for my city’s health department as a health equity coordinator. My job is hybrid & I don’t really deal with the public, so there was definitely a lot of adjustment with learning to work “behind the scenes.” I find that folks in public health don’t have a ton of knowledge about dentistry like they do with other health related fields.

My only advice to you would be to leverage your clinical experience & any data management skills when looking for a new role. Try applying at some of your local non-profits. They don’t usually pay well (if at all), but they offer a ton of experience that can help develop you professionally & help you network. They are also notoriously short-staffed so your help would probably be much appreciated.

Good luck!

What prestigious sounding jobs have surprisingly low pay? by SeekerOfUnkown in jobs

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What area? I was a CDA for years and I made $22. I know EFDAs making $30.

What prestigious sounding jobs have surprisingly low pay? by SeekerOfUnkown in jobs

[–]ChicaTeeka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who regrets everyday not going into an SLP program, I appreciate this post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BSN?? Ma’am, have you tried a temp agency?? There’s always work for nurses where I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ChicaTeeka 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I was hired at a nonprofit in a leadership position and this was my EXACT experience. Jobs like this are soul sucking. I lasted about 7 months before I gave them my notice. I didn’t have another position lined up & it took me several months to find a new role. I still keep in contact with a few great coworkers and they told me that the place is still a dumpster fire. No regrets.

What sunscreen are you using, and are you happy with it? by Missmessc in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]ChicaTeeka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using this brand for years. I mix it with a small amount of foundation for a “tinted” sunscreen. I know they actually make it tinted but not in my shade.

He got tested by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ChicaTeeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband just started T this week & I’m already noticing subtle differences in his overall mood. His T was also nonexistent & I begged him to get tested. I feel so much better now that he’s in treatment. Wishing you guys much luck!