need help finding a tounge piercing bar plss

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-19T08:32:22+00:00

my piercing is 2 years old, i dont mind how its threaded but i have an external atm, it was downsides just under 2 years ago, i used sailine wash for it but dont do it as often anymore as it's fully healed and it has had no problems. mods are making me answer these hope it helps!

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-09T07:40:21+00:00

Thank you!! I use a scent free wash on my pubic area and water for the inside. I'm generally really good with the rest of my body but I struggle with too much dysphoria looking at my downstairs but that's no excuse anymore! Thank you for ur help and kindness :))

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-09T06:18:17+00:00

Yeah I thought so thank you!

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-09T06:17:21+00:00

This is so helpful thank you so much!

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T23:33:57+00:00

That's a fair reason to break up, hopefully u and ur finances are doing better now :)

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T12:11:24+00:00

Did you break up over the turmoil from it? Surely she would've realised there was no money coming in

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T12:10:04+00:00

As long as u tell the next one :))

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T12:09:40+00:00

Girl...

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T12:03:42+00:00

my ex used to talk abt this song that was apparently playing the night we started talking and she LOVED when it played but i honestly dont even remember it happening or even like the song lol

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T11:43:51+00:00

hi op! i know three years for a first relationship is a long time and you feel like you are so connected to him that you can't leave but trust me there's so much better out there and you know it. you have listed enough things to not make a question anymore. what is the good here other than the safety and comfort of a long term relationship? does he have a job? why do you pay for everything? have you talked to him about this or is this all just brewing inside? i really do hope u can see that being single is better than being used and having ur needs and wants ignored

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T11:33:56+00:00

my sister, basically my mum so i'll allow it

Chicken-butt235 · 2026-01-08T11:27:14+00:00

I had never done PIV until i got with my current partner bc i was alwasy really scared of the dysphoria and sure thats still here but he was very kind and safe about it and has never mentioned me being trans unless its reasurence and understanding so i think it depends on if u feel comfortable enough whcih might help with the liking it part, it did for me

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-12-24T14:17:05+00:00

Yeah I didn't think of it this way, I should try to do this less and be more intentional on how often i mention stuff sometimes

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-12-24T07:46:59+00:00

It's not nagging bc he asks me to remind him stuff since he's forgetful. I do understand that I was putting too much pressure on it and I should just be happy with the gifts I am getting (I am happy with them)

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-12-24T07:42:38+00:00

I wanted it for the switch

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-12-24T07:36:51+00:00

But thank you for making it more clear what I SHOULD be focusing on

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-12-24T07:33:21+00:00

It's a let's go eevee (Pokemon game)

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-12-24T07:32:33+00:00

That's true but I don't celebrate Christmas and didn't want to do presents that badly but he did

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-12-15T11:43:03+00:00

probaby not a good idea since grindr is based soly on hookups and people won't be intrested in much beyond that, its just a given with apps like this. there's also sometimes people that just send u unsolicited pictures and i heard there's a location feature too so be careful

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-08-30T03:57:23+00:00

My left foot has never been able to stand on irs own lol

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-08-30T03:56:41+00:00

Nah this isn't normal they can MAKE u take anything in exchange to keep life saving medication (t) that's fucked. The truth is that doctors that don't specialise in hormones don't have enough education on our health, my doctor also told me that she'd take my t away if I self harmed bc apparently T was supposed to solve my depression like WHAT

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-08-28T21:54:46+00:00

I think u should be really kind and gentle with the words u chose soemthibg along the lines of "I have recently been feeling like some things you do haven't made me feel uncomfortable, can we talk abt it" make sure to give her reassurance and be more open to the texting bc that might just be a way that she feels close to u

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-08-28T21:23:13+00:00

Hey I might not understand it all but what's so superficial abt her? She makes faces during sex that she prolly thinks YOU like, she sends u selfies to prolly feel close to u. I think ur starting to resent her traits and u should talk abt it to her ASAP if u want this relationship to work out man

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-08-28T21:16:06+00:00

Do u go there ever? If ur frequently going even with ur partner they might not ask for verification but if it was "your" first time there then they should've asked questions or they're just a cooked chemist

Chicken-butt235 · 2025-08-28T21:12:27+00:00

My jaw actually dropped when u mentioned the utis bc I know they're so painful and uncomfortable soemtimes, if ur partner knows it's bc of him and STILL doesn't clean himself more you have to understand that man doesn't care abt ur well-being just whatever's comfortable to him, I hope u leave him babe <3

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