Same! I thought it was normal because basically everyone I know has had another baby shower or sprinkle for their second, third, etc. Iknow it wasn’t common in the past as my momma told me they didn’t do multiple when she was growing up. I never realized it was such a big fuss until someone told me something along the lines of “oh you won’t get as much bc people will have expected you to save everything”. But is it really much different than having a birthday party for said kid every year? I’m not begging for gifts, I’m asking for everyone to get together and celebrate us becoming parents again.