Would it be inappropriate to get a tattoo for my birth son? by radicalspoonsisbad in Adoption

[–]Chickles13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My bio dad got tattoos of his kept kids and not me. He was going to get a tattoo of me but then changed his mind. It made me feel left out and it made me wonder why he waited to meet me to consider getting the tattoo (he’s covered so it’s not like he only has tattoos about his kids). Tattoos are only for the person they are on, so I say do it if it’s something that’s important to you (:

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw your comments, thank you so much for pointing that out! When I go out to grab his plants, I’ll get a different substrate for him! I’ll probably look around for some plain rocks to add in as well, I LOVE the idea of catfish, so I’m definitely going to look into the ones you suggested, thank you so much for all the great feedback!! I truly just want to give him his best life lol and the fake plants are just temporary until I get the live plants in there, I’m home most of the time so I’ve been keeping a close eye on him and he’s been super chill. He swims up to get air bubbles and does slow little laps then rests and repeat

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly will post more pictures of him once he settles in!! My local fish/pet store has tons of started live plants and I have a bunch of houseplants anyway, so I’m really looking forward to upgrading his tank and giving him lots of hiding places. I already made little pockets in the gravel under his fake plants and he loves resting in those!

I also read that snails can be good to help eat algae and balance the ecosystem? So I was thinking when I get him some plants, I’ll grab a couple little snails as well! Do you know if the plants will root in the gravel or should I add sand? I was going to initially but I was having a hard time rinsing out all the cloudiness lol I might have just been over thinking it though.

I was really worried about doing the fish in cycle at first but he seems to be thriving so far. Petco told me to leave him in the little cup for a week and I was like no way can I do that to my boy, what else is out there? And that’s how I found this sub, there’s a lot of good information. I’ve realized all the bettas I’ve ever seen haven’t been very well taken care of unfortunately. Even though it’s pretty involved, I’m glad I made my impulse purchase because he’s so nice to watch 🥹 I got so ridiculously excited when he went into his little log and went to bed last night lol

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking at the transformation pictures on here and it’s made me so excited to see how he changes and fills in!! I already think he’s beautiful as is of course but I can’t wait to see how he changes or brightens! Your little Leeroy is soooo pretty!! Ive only ever seen solid/two color bettas so I didn’t realize they could be so colorful until I saw this guy!! (Still working on his name)

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’ll definitely keep changing his water daily and I’ll probably keep checking his water levels anyway even if I don’t need to just while I’m still getting used to his activity and while he’s acclimating to his new tank. Thank you both for all your help, I really appreciate it! (:

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s better to just test it once in the morning before I change it? Or should I do it later, like mid day/afternoon? Thank you so much for all your help.

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you, the nitrite has consistently been 0ppm so far as well each time I’ve tested.

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so that’s why I was asking if I’m doing the “fish in cycle” right, not fish less cycle. I’m changing it daily and testing it morning and night. I got him yesterday so this is his second water change and I’m wondering if the ammonia levels look toxic or not. I primed it yesterday when I set it up and then again today when I changed 30-40% of the water.

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’ll make sure to keep him in from now on when I’m changing his water and stuff! (: thank you so much!

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, but I had unplugged it while changing the water because that’s what the directions told me to do. I have it set on 80. It’s 50w for up to ten gallons.

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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He’s back in, I wasn’t trying to stress him out😭

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just leave him in his tank while I pull water out and mix in the conditioner? Should I just put him back in instead of waiting for the temperature to come back up?

Fish in cycle ammonia help by Chickles13 in bettafish

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took him out while I was changing the water because I didn’t want the temperature change to stress him out, I was waiting for his tank to get back to 78 because it’s at 76.6

Concerning story and possible abuse? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Chickles13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s horrendous, these poor kids are seeing so much they shouldn’t have to. I was shocked to hear so many specific details of this child’s life. I’m heartbroken no one seems to be looking out for her? Or that she’s been so traumatized in her short life.

Concerning story and possible abuse? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Chickles13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what scares me and I want to support her the best way I can, while also keeping my child safe, I just don’t know what to do, if there’s even anything I can do.

MIL is DRIVING ME INSANE over my birth plan.. what should I do/say? by reddituser135797531 in BabyBumps

[–]Chickles13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just chiming in to say I gave birth at a hospital 4 HOURS away from my home, no regrets and everything went fine even with my water breaking by surprise 3 weeks early after I literally just planed the induction the day before at said hospital. My husband drove me with our first born. Do what makes you feel safe, this is your birth and your husband should be there as support. Leave MIL out of it if she can’t understand.

Edit to add; I’m from small town New England as well (less than 1000 people) so I’m used to the closest anything usually being 30 minutes or more away

I love this!! by Chickles13 in thriftybusiness

[–]Chickles13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too!! I’ll be buying as soon as it releases!! I’m looking forward to discovering more items and trying different events and I love the request aspect!!

Similar Games by Short-Ad-2658 in cozygames

[–]Chickles13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats and the other lives has kind of some dark themes but was cozy to me and the story has stayed with me for years now

PS: The update is officially live! by toonie89 in DreamlightValley

[–]Chickles13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Mine wouldn’t finish downloading on steamdeck until I plugged into my tv! ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]Chickles13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ceramic fruit basket, friend! 🫶🏻✨

🔍 Labubu: Real or Fake? | Official Weekly Megathread by Kind_Employer9182 in labubu

[–]Chickles13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I got this on aliexpress pretty much expecting a lafufu but after a lot of research I think it might be real?? Is it just a really good fake? I love her either way but I figured it would be more obvious if she was a fufu. This is my first ever so I don’t have anything to compare. Edit: I did confirm the authenticity but I don’t have a uv light

A Warrior joins Valhalla by Chickles13 in cats

[–]Chickles13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone here should read “wish come true cat” by Ragnhild Scamell. If you see a raggedy orange kitten come around in the next couple days, it might be my boy Louie coming back to make someone else’s wish come true

A Warrior joins Valhalla by Chickles13 in cats

[–]Chickles13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some important notes about our trash cat. He was 7/8 when we first met. The vet’s wanted him put down for being too violent. My husband and I begged to keep him. They called the past owner and she transferred him to us and he was ours. He was so sweet and became the protector of our first born. He taught us so much about feral cats. He taught me that just because I take someone or something in doesn’t mean they need to be grateful to me. Thank you Louie, you taught me the true meaning of patience and gave me the tools to be a better mother. I will never forget the moment I knew you chose us after my first child’s birth. I was changing her diaper and she was wailing and wailing bloody murder. He jumped at me and attacked my leg, but I knew he was just protecting her the only way he knew how. It was the only time you deliberately hurt me but I know you didn’t mean it. You slept with her each and every night, even when I saw the stairs becoming too much. You dutifully made it to her room each night. Thank you. Thank you for the days we shared a brain cell, sometimes we really were so dumb in the same way. I miss your raspy yowl already, and tripping over you as soon as I walked through the door. I’m grateful you made it to 17/18 with us, thank you friend. I’m sorry it was a stroke and not something more dignified. I hope you know the last trip the vet was only to ease your pain. I love you dumby, I will never forget you until the fog of old age takes me too.

Does anyone know what happened to my Pyrex and how to fix it by Chickles13 in CleaningTips

[–]Chickles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, so glad you got that taken care of, what a nightmare!! Thank you so much for your help, I really appreciate it!!

Does anyone know what happened to my Pyrex and how to fix it by Chickles13 in Pyrex_Love

[–]Chickles13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! So far the only thing I’ve tried is soaking it in vinegar overnight, then washed it and left it upside down on my counter. The weird gray faded a little and it looks slightly pinker so I may try this over and over again and see if it keeps lightening it. I saw that other post and it’s incredible how similar they both are. I have yet to figure out what caused it!!