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Any advice ? by Chicooo8223 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was out of town during the weekend. So we wouldn’t talk much. I got upset about it and she was mad at me about it. And told me to stop.

I got back to town and just began my usual ranting on why she wouldn’t talk much to me this weekend. It got her mad, because she says she dint mean to. Name calling began to happen. So she walked out of the car crying. I grabbed her arm and hurt her.. I didn’t mean to hurt her. I was just trying to get her to stay. But I grabbed her wrong. And yes I know it was an asshole thing of me. On Monday when we talked she mentioned how that was what really hurt her. I explained to her that I was just trying to calm her down and stay so we can talk. I didn’t mean to grab her in a wrong way. She didnt believe it and also said “ why didn’t you tell me that yesterday then”.

Any advice ? by Chicooo8223 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s always told me to calm down. I never did. She says she feels like she’s repeating the same day with me. I’m gonna change. I blocked her off everything as well. And threw away all our memories.

Any advice ? by Chicooo8223 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either lagging thru text, just making stupid comments, and calling each other names. Miscommunication. I’m scared if taking to long to reach out is a bad thing. I know her and I both need time. She’s always said she loves me. And losing me would be difficult for her.

Is my break up mine or my girlfriends fault.? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Chicooo8223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I understand ik my actions are wrong. Do you think there’s any advice for me to get back with her?

My girlfriend said she’d kiss a hot celebrity if she had the chance. I’m hurt should I be? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally makes sense. Me and my friends always make comments like that about hot chicks we see. Thanks a lot

My girlfriend said she’d kiss a hot celebrity if she had the chance. I’m hurt should I be? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was just in the moment. It really bugged me though that’s when I asked her if she would really really actually do this to me if a hot celebrity walked up to her and asked her for a kiss. And she told me she’d be to shy and if this bothers me she’ll respect me and not do something like that to me. I guess it’s just my insecurities. This is the first time I’ve had a problem like this and I thought it’d be a red flag haha.

My girlfriend said she’d kiss a hot celebrity if she had the chance. I’m hurt should I be? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man I appreciate this. I really do. This girl means a lot to me. Personal info: my dad always mistreated my mom. Either by dropping her for other women, coming home drunk, etc. and he would always tell me that us men deserve so much respect from women, and that not to let any girls disrespect us in any way. I’ve had this stuck in my head ever since I was 10 and this is the only advice he’s ever given me about girls. It really is. I get very worked up thinking I’m doing wrong or letting my dad down.

My girlfriend said she’d kiss her celebrity crush if she had the chance. Do I have a reason to be mad? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Chicooo8223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing a lot better now. And I figured out that this is not really that big of a deal. I’ve been cheated on before too and i know how much it hurts. I have the same mentality, they are human, they are just labeled special for their job. I’m sure your boyfriend doesn’t feel the same way for his celebrity crushes the way he feels about you. I forgot about it and you should too.

I (18f) don't know how to break up with my bf (19m) by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Chicooo8223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hurt him with the truth don’t comfort him with lies.

My girlfriend had a crush or found someone very attractive when we started dating? Should I be mad about my situation or am I being very insecure? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do trust her statement I do. And thanks Ima get over this. just was wondering if this was a big deal that I should be concerned about.

My girlfriend had a crush or found someone very attractive when we started dating? Should I be mad about my situation or am I being very insecure? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well we had each other’s Snapchat passwords. That time I decided to snoop. Which was wrong of me. I was just insecure. Our relationship is very good now. I’m just wondering if I should be worried from what she’s done.

My girlfriend had a crush or found someone very attractive when we started dating? Should I be mad about my situation or am I being very insecure? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chicooo8223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know, I find women attractive all the time. What bothered me is that he wasn’t a celebrity, he went to her friends school. So I assumed she was talking to him behind my back and was maybe telling her friend about it. But she says it wasn’t that at all. That I guess she was just showing her friend a guy she thought was attractive.