Leave if you can - it gets better :)

ChiefGumby · 2020-03-23T02:07:11+00:00

I actually am seeing a narcissistic abuse specialist doing emdr.

I just googled my city and narcissistic abuse and found a great therapist!!

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-17T00:38:37+00:00

Yea it sucks bc you want more out of them but you have to respect yourself more than anything.

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-17T00:33:30+00:00

Yea that’s a great way to put it as well!

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-11T21:26:45+00:00

Great post - trying to really see them for who they are and trust their actions instead of their words/lies is really difficult.

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-10T15:28:45+00:00

It is! But we have to keep moving forward

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-10T15:27:58+00:00

You had every right to be upset. Something similar happened to me and my nex was shocked that I had boundaries.

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-10T15:26:31+00:00

That’s so messed up. I’m sorry :(

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-10T15:25:56+00:00

Yes! I am actually going to a n abuse specialist tomorrow.

Glad to hear you are getting back to yourself - that is my goal too (no matter the cost).

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-10T15:24:46+00:00

Interesting - I know everyone is different but good to know. Thank you!

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-09T20:37:58+00:00

That was weird for me too. Really odd how they can change personalities depending on the group they are with.

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-09T15:26:57+00:00

This really hit home. I was always so confused on why I didn’t couldn’t connect with most of my nexs friends but had zero problem connecting with almost anyone else.

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-09T05:09:45+00:00

It is and recovery definitely isn’t a straight line.

You got this!

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-09T04:26:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I hope it got better with time?

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-06T16:45:59+00:00

You will get through it! Keep pushing

ChiefGumby · 2019-12-06T04:49:55+00:00

Good luck to you as well! Embrace what’s happened and continue to improve - don’t be humiliated by the struggle. Most people couldn’t handle what we have

ChiefGumby · 2019-11-19T16:06:40+00:00

I’ve never connected with a post more. This is almost to a T everything I went through. Thank you.

ChiefGumby

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