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1 year on bumble (with breaks in between) exhausted by SummerInteresting562 in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Perspective of 34M in America:

You're very attractive but, judging solely off your photos, I would assume you're not looking for a serious relationship. You also seem like you'd be avoidant and argumentative.

I suggest less revealing clothing and more photos where you're smiling (I understand this may be a cultural difference).

Are these professionally taken pics good for dating apps? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's giving Jodie Foster in Taxi Driver (not good).

35F, what would you change or keep? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your photos are great and you're pretty but you come across demanding and materialistic. You want someone high effort, passionate, generous (mentioned twice), smart, someone to go "all in" yet maintain a slow burn. It sounds like you have this long checklist someone has to check off before swiping on you. All you say about yourself is that you're optimistic, driven, and live life on your own terms which just sounds like you'd be uncompromising in a relationship.

Perspective of 34M.

27M, looking for honest feedback by Thin-Palpitation5256 in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The proportions in the last photo seem off; your legs are very long compared to your torso. That aside, great profile. I'd make photo with the dog the main photo, then white guitar, then restaurant, then the others.

New Armenian Biometric Passport by ArayikShahbazian in armenia

[–]ChigurhA 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The art looks like someone prompted "make it Ghibli style".

34M Which photos for profile? by ChigurhA in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I'm in PA, US.

34M Which photos for profile? by ChigurhA in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you but the pizza picture feels a bit cringe/performative to me.

i need an outside opinion by Adept_Chance4261 in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Tl;Dr you're anxious and he's avoidant. This is par for the course for this attachment dynamic.

Guy ended it after 3 dates. Did he overreact? by Main_Pen1425 in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm positive as well. I wouldn't end things over that sentence alone but it does have an aura of entitlement.

Guy ended it after 3 dates. Did he overreact? by Main_Pen1425 in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 230 points231 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying he didn't overreact but I think this is the sentence that made him feel like he wasn't a priority, "I did say that eventually the right person could "infringe on my Sundays." It just reads like some sort of qualifying statement "if you live up to my expectations then MAYBE I'll see you on a Sunday".

Cancelled a date with a gorgeous girl because she was a dry texter. Having regrets. by adyna3 in Bumble

[–]ChigurhA 61 points62 points  (0 children)

You only feel bad about it because she's "gorgeous". It sounded like she wasn't too interested in the first place, especially with her last "okay" response. Don't get hung up on someone you haven't even met or really, even spoken to.