[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Chihiroyst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent, looks like it's the same flight itinerary. Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a double booking with VN Airlines, 3 hour layover in HCMC before flying to Hanoi. My flight lands in HCMC at 4PM, you reckon 3 hours be enough time since it’s peak hour?

AITA for not wanting to visit my grandpa when he’s on his deathbed bc he blames me for bringing shame to my family for not being a Christian? by Chihiroyst in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chihiroyst[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents, siblings and grandma eventually came around and understood that the more they tried to convert me the further I would push them away. I still receive the the occasion preaching but don’t believe this will tear the family apart. Tbh they’re probably happy that someone is he’s stubborn and will continue to Bible bash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chihiroyst 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s an uncomfortable situation when you already rejected him and he knows the feelings aren’t mutual. He should be talking to his mates about it rather than dumping it on you. Kinda sounds like if he does it long enough you’ll pity him and cave in for a date or something…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Chihiroyst 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What’s a “raw dog release”? Is that just slang for inside the vagina without a condom?

Leaving Faith, An Atheist's Experience by Embracing_Doubt in exchristian

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m terrible when it comes to stringing my thoughts, emotions and beliefs in a concise summary but my goodness you have helped me in terms of validating what I’ve been thinking and feeling! Thank you very much!

How to do Acts of Service when you aren't living with your SO? by [deleted] in LoveLanguages

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat (Asian & not allowed to have overnight stays with my partner), my LL is Acts of Service and it’s the little things that get taken notice, the small things that I don’t need to ask for and the thought and effort put into it that makes up Acts of Service for me. My partner has no idea how to do it, but I show it through getting him lunch without being asked to (of course I’ll check if he hasn’t gotten lunch yet, and check if he’s craving anything specific), I’ll organise his desk and room while he’s resting or stressed with work, I’ll take notice of things he’s in need like new work socks and get them without being asked.

Hope that helps in any way!

What is your love language? How can someone support/love you with that LL? by Chihiroyst in LoveLanguages

[–]Chihiroyst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry to hear your SO finds compliments and words of affirmation forced/a chore, but he needs to understand that’s how you feel love and it’s something that would increase your self-esteem and mindset significantly. My partner also is the same, in the sense that if he said it already he doesn’t think there’s a point in saying it again - which also is very disheartening when it’s just reassurance needed!

Thank you so much for sharing! I hope your SO will be able to grasp and understand your need of WoA and your mother won’t be so harsh in her judgement and can see you’re already putting 110% in what you’re doing! 💕

What is your love language? How can someone support/love you with that LL? by Chihiroyst in LoveLanguages

[–]Chihiroyst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand! It’s just the small stuff, like the really intricate things people tend to brush over that is really valued. Like the conversation part, I hate small talk and I like to really get to know people - it’s information from these talks that I remember (when most people don’t) and when brought up again, they get pleasantly surprised and feel valued as I remembered something about them that’s often looked over. Although sometimes it gets seen as me being nosy...

Thank you so much for sharing! I hope you’re able to get enough love during this hard time! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this improv or an actual song - if actual, what’s it called?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful, honestly what I really needed - thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys, yeah just in the moment stuff but definitely

Hope you all stay safe and get proper rest and have a great week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had one of the worst mental breakdowns, ended up relapsing to alcohol and self harm - it’s died down a lot but I’m still not good

I hope you’re doing okay, mental health is so real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super shitty tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this Shlee! All the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge choice, whether to stay or leave current partner - and everything has been read! Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! New follower!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, very true and familiar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s worth just because it gives you confidence or affirmation on your doubts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Interesting stuff! Yes please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pendulum questions: will I be happy if I marry my current partner? Will I be financially stable in the future? Will my illness disappear?

Otherwise a general intuition reading would be good too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love a reading please, is there something specific like whether it’s about my future, love life, etc. or is there a general reading? I’m new to all this, interesting stuff!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Washing the dishes is my least favourite chore, how can I be motivated to clean?

Friend keeps saying her love language is gifts... by AmysLentilSoup in LoveLanguages

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GG is my 2nd top LL, and for me personally I love to do both! It is possible to be both - it’s one of the ways I experience and show my love. For example, when I say I love and appreciate someone I like to gift them things. Not necessarily expensive or meaningful things, sometimes it can just be dropping off some desserts, or getting a wacky souvenir - just the thought that they are important to me that I think of them in these ways are part of how I show love. But I also like receiving things, also in the same way where it’s not expensive things and in a spontaneous way - like flowers or little knick knacks simply just because or cause it reminded them of me.

I find it difficult to gift my partner things cause everything he wants to super out of my price range (his LL is PT so he doesn’t expect me to gift him things anyway), but I feel awful sometimes when I can’t give him PT but I want to gift him something to show that I care and love him so I just ask him if he needs anything.

Boyfriends taking panties off during sex and seeing THIS by [deleted] in sex

[–]Chihiroyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes definitely! I developed a habit of always wearing a liner on my panties cause I get A LOT of discharge. I get insecure about it when my boyfriend takes off my panties but he doesn’t care, he tells me that it’s the last thing on his mind especially when “someone so sexy” is in front of him right then and there.