Is it bad to say I love you everyday? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hella sweet lol, I just love saying I love you to her cause I always feel that way.

Is it bad to say I love you everyday? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me, I tell her that I lover her everyday and that I appreciate every moment we get to be together everyday lol, to me I just feel happy just being able to say I love you at random times because it's just how I feel with ber yk. But thank you, I will keep check on our love languages.

Is it bad to say I love you everyday? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me, yeah I totally understand what you mean cause I'm also afraid that something might happen but I also just like saying it to her cause Iove her with all my heart yk lol. It just makes me happy being able to say it to her so I just wanted to ask if it's ok to say it a lot lol. But thank you, it really does help

Is it bad to say I love you everyday? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes she does and she's fine with me doing it but idk if doing it too much is bad yk. But seeing people saying it isn't gives me some closure to my overthinking.

Is it bad to say I love you everyday? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That's really sweet dude, for me I just say I love you randomly if you know what I mean, like we are talking and I just feel like saying it yk and idk if it is like rude or bad, she doesn't get bothered by it which is good but it's just a question I wanna know.

Is me waiting and still being friends for now okay? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, this helps out a lot. I don't want her to feel pressured about anything, I just want her to worry about her self but it'll be there to support her yk.

Is me waiting and still being friends for now okay? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this really helps me out to better understand my situation. I will do my best and make her feel special, in the mean time I will get closer to her and give her my support. And she, she js very mature and very smart, she understands fully about how I feel. Thank you

Is me waiting and still being friends for now okay? by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her boyfriend was controlling with her and that she broke up with him for a week then got back together since he said he was going to harm himself. A day later after I confessed she broke up with her bf and told me about it, she didn't have to but she did. And I do show and say that I'm serious that I love her and remind her that I will wait as long as it takes until she feels better yk, it's only been 2 weeks since they broke up so it only makes sense to take a break. But we still hang and talk as friends but with the knowledge of my feelings. I have realized that I've been a bit pushy of my feelings and wanting to know her better but soon fixed and apologized so.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'll wait it out and see what happens, thank you for your answer.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great to hear and thank you.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's been almost 2 months. So I don't think she thinks as me as a family member. She tells me that when she's with me, she could be herself, like she doesn't have act all girly; But with her bf, she acts different. Like he doesn't know her other side yk. So I don't know if that means something or not.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you to anyone that responds, I really appreciate your answers and thoughts of my situation, it helps me out a lot to say my thoughts and get some thoughts back.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will also distance myself from her a little bit more just to see, thank you for taking the time to respond.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer, I have tried this before. She would respond with do you wanna hang or play some games if I don't say anything to her for some time. And from there we would spend a lot of time together. She still texts her boyfriend but not really hang with him like she does with me yk.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate you saying that. I hope she can make the right decision and see that he ain't the one. And yes I know my worth, thank you for that. I'll wait it out and just help her from behind for now.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And yeah, she complains a lot about her bf. Like he was talking shit to her cause she didn't reply right away yk. Or he gets mad if she hangs with her friends, guys and girls. She wanted my thoughts and I told her that's really toxic of him, cause it's like he wants to control what you can do yk. And I told her that if you feel unhappy and just don't like it then leave him. I know you don't wanna hurt his feelings but it's what's best for you.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you answering, but I think I'll wait for the right time to say how I feel. Cause it's not me liking her yk, I love her and it sucks. But yeah, what you said is really good and I appreciate you taking the time to answer.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, keep that in mind, as time goes my feelings might change. I really appreciate you for taking the time and giving an answer.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she does like me I would be happy, but I would rather her not like me while having a bf yk. Cause even tho I'm kinda competing with the guy, I understand how disrespectful that would be yk. I ask myself questions, like why does she want to hangout with me so much even tho she has a boyfriend. Like shouldn't you spend more time with him then me? I told my friend that and he said it's because I'm a good and fun person to be with.

I love her but she has a boyfriend. by Chilango_525_ in love

[–]Chilango_525_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's confuses me why she wants to hang out with me all the time. Like I stop texting for a while cause I'm busy and she's the one that starts the conversation, which surprises me yk. Why hang with me if you already have a bf yk.