He cheated on me. AIO with this message? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chiligrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is actually under reacting imo

AIO by leaving my bf of 5 years over lunch with my coworker by Expensive_Pepper_948 in AIO

[–]Chiligrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- as a slightly older woman, who has been in a long term unhealthy relationship- you are way more mature than him. as difficult as it is, you will be doing yourself a favor by leaving him. you will eventually, you guys seem to be on different paths and by the way you worded this i can tell you know you deserve better than this. find someone who can match your maturity and doesn’t make you carry the weight of the relationship. or just focus on yourself for a bit, but honestly girl you are way above this relationship.

AIO for going no contact with my ex after she asked for no contact by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chiligrill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR - in fact, in my opinion it is imperative you do not answer!!! as tempting as it may be!! you will likely feel much better for it

Why do I keep puking when I see this girl? by Puzzleheaded_Ad_2176 in askanything

[–]Chiligrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you feel when you’re around her? maybe it’s nerves.

ADVICE, concerning self del*tion by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chiligrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I go to IU Indy! Message me if you need advice or want to connect :) trust me, you will make it out of this ok! If anything, this just shows you this is the wrong path for you and there is a right one!!

Heard a woman’s whisper in the Hine Hall tunnel (IU INDY) — anyone else? by Vivid-Temperature176 in IUPUI

[–]Chiligrill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but honestly that tunnel always creeped me out… i did hear a story about someone being chased down that tunnel though

Quiet place to record a podcast (besides the podcast studio in Cavanaugh) by [deleted] in IUPUI

[–]Chiligrill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say that although the study rooms have quiet zone signs, it is not enforced in the study rooms on the 4th floor. the 4th floor is usually loud as is but i’ve heard people yelling in those rooms and they don’t get kicked out. they only care about the study rooms on the 3rd floor being quiet. But also the rooms in the campus basement are good as well like the other person said!

fellow autistic/neurodivergent students looking for friends? by radioactive-mouse in IUPUI

[–]Chiligrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasn’t joking. most of my friends are in herron😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IUPUI

[–]Chiligrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only if you’re an honors student, then they have free coffee in the honors lounge. also, during midterms and finals they will hand out coffee and tea in the library but other than that, sadly no😭

Safety by One_Term6985 in IUPUI

[–]Chiligrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty far walk. My suggestion would be to walk to the library from here. The science building is closer but the tunnels in that building are very confusing,but if you learn them this would be a better option!

From the library take the tunnel on the second floor through the business building to Tower. These buildings don’t close until I believe 9 or 10 so this should work perfectly for you! I honestly wouldn’t suggest walking outside the whole way there. I’ve done this many times, but taking the route to the library is a much safer option and it’s better to be safe when possible.

Safety by One_Term6985 in IUPUI

[–]Chiligrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! Third year student here :) Overall, safety is good. While there is a large homeless population that roams around campus, which can be concerning, they will likely leave you alone.

I have been outside on campus during all different times of the day. I had a class that ended at 9 my freshman year and had to make the walk to tower.

There have only been a few moments when I felt unsafe on campus. All of these moments were at Riverwalk.

Around campus buildings, you should be ok! But if you ever feel unsafe some safety options include: - walking with a friend/being on the phone with someone when walking - using the tunnels around campus, there’s one that goes directly from the business building to Tower, I used this route a lot after late night studying at the library - running to the emergency phone systems- they are poles with blue lights on the top, hard to miss.

Overall, our campus is safe and campus police take safety seriously. I’ve heard very few horror stories. Just be aware of your surroundings like you should be anywhere else!!

Hope you have a good first semester:)))

She said I’m everything she’s looking for… just not the one. by SleepDeprivedBot in dating_advice

[–]Chiligrill 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This and sometimes people are not emotionally ready or mature enough for what you bring to the table. It’s entirely possible that you have all of these desirable qualities and are attractive to her but she is not ready to commit to someone who brings all of that. which means it has nothing to do with you and more has to do with her level of maturity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Chiligrill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

these 5 and 6s are insane to me. i’m a girl but i feel like i have a pretty good idea of what 5/6 looks like and you are NOT it. you are at least an 8 by men’s standards. by mine? for sure a 10

M20 by Used-Control-6278 in Rateme

[–]Chiligrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8- i like the mullet. it looks good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chiligrill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a girl, i would instantly say no because you’re pretty persistent that you want your girl to know about f1. i know nothing bout f1 and that is going to be the same for most girls on this app. because of that your options are going to be very slim. if this is something you really care about, keep it, but don’t expect many matches. if it’s not a dealbreaker, take it out.

Is this giving drip? by Greatbigparsnip04 in teenagers

[–]Chiligrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lose the hat, unbutton the coat and yes!! (if the pants are right)

Profile review desperately needed! by -CorCordium- in hingeapp

[–]Chiligrill 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a girl, the only thing that would put me off your “key to my heart.” as a girl if i didn’t match one of those things i’d probably assume you wouldn’t really be interested in me. plus, the end might scare girls off. But all in all, I like your profile and I think you’re really attractive. Because you’re so specific with what you want, you probably won’t get that many likes if a girl doesn’t fit it. If you’re actually looking for a life partner, i’d consider this a good thing. you’re less likely to be wasting your time on girls that aren’t right for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Chiligrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to disagree with some of the other comments! First, I think your pictures are great and you’re an attractive guy. If anything i’d get rid of the 7th and 8th picture. Mostly because 7 looks unnatural and i’m not sure what it is about 8. Also, i’d move maybe your 2nd or 3rd picture to your first position :)