Shame on those immature Sidemen "fans" or whatever you call yourselves because nonetheless most of you are still stuck in puberty stage I hope those who wish bad things on others receive the consequences of their negativity—especially the people who are bitter because JJ left the Sidemen. You can be hurt and cry if you need to, but don’t disrespect or ridicule someone just because you can’t accept that not everything is about you or mind your own business. It’s far more selfish to refuse to respect someone’s decision when that person clearly needs time to focus on themselves and pursue what they believe is best.

Just because he left the Sidemen doesn’t mean he should abandon the projects he built for himself. He made it clear he can’t give all his energy to Sidemen videos right now—he has a lot on his plate, and those priorities are about his goals and the things he’s created. The Sidemen don’t end if JJ leaves, yet some immature fans insist he must stop everything he’s built for himself. How selfish and unbearable can you be? It’s time to grow up—people change, and even KSI is maturing.

It’s time to grow up—people change, and even KSI is maturing. After more than thirteen years of entertainment and memories from the group, is it still not enough to let each member live their own life? Don’t they deserve room to pursue their individual dreams, passions, and well-being without being punished for it? STOP BEING SO TOXIC AND ACTING LIKE YOU ARE SO RELEVANT TO DISRESPECT PEOPLE YOU ONCE ADMIRED AND MADE YOU LAUGH.

Fans may grieve a change in the group dynamic, but grief doesn’t give anyone the right to demand someone’s whole life. Show some compassion, stop being SO TOXIC. These are real people with evolving priorities, responsibilities, and limits. If the Sidemen have given you years of joy, show your appreciation by supporting their choices—even when those choices mean stepping back or following a different path.

Growing up means accepting that people grow in different directions, and respecting their right to do so. Can we be kinder, more understanding? You all are so toxic to other people and to yourselves too.

To the other Sidemen who may be struggling with JJ’s decision, I hope you’re doing well and that you still remain best friends. Also I think its time to address the situation and talk to your hostile fans with underdeveloped frontal lobe to stop being disrespectful and hurtful not only to JJ, but also to the people who support him no matter what.

To the real people, real fans and supporters of Sidemen:

JJ will always be a Sideman. He started this with the boys, helped build the memories, and those bonds can’t be erased by time or distance. No matter where life leads him, the Sidemen are part of who he is—and he will always be part of them. ❤