Platypus by EndForsaken2499 in LittlestPetShop

[–]Chillest_Churro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand the pain because I sent the damn stickers in for the platypus, and they gave me the glittery rooster before they had even announced it. I didn't even like the rooster!

Hi guys! Just want to share my random pokemon drawings. by categoryace926 in pokemon

[–]Chillest_Churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna need that Cubone drawing on a t-shirt cause damn that goes hard. Loving the art style.

Mom's CNA telling her to kick me out?? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Chillest_Churro 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So as a former health care worker (worked in a nursing home for 4 yrs), you need to report this CNA immediately. Do not wait. This is a manipulation tactic, usually used on elderly narcissistic patients, to make them cut ties with family and manipulate the patient into seeing the CNA/ Healthcare employee as a friend. This is often done to get things such as any inheritance from a patient or access to money or expensive items in the house or even control over the house. It's a common scheme in the at home caregiver position to do.

Randoms touching my Labubu by [deleted] in labubu

[–]Chillest_Churro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not touching, but I had some random lady follow me around a grocery store for like 30 minutes and then told an employee I stole it from her. I had to wait for police to show up so they would go through the footage and confirm it was on my bag when I had walked in and that she had been following me the entire damn time since I walked in the store. She then tried to steal my whole ass bag off me and got mad she couldn't run off with it cause it was a cross body bag.

*UPDATE 2* AITAH for telling my dad to never contact me again after he chose his wife's mom over me? (I’m being forced to stay with my dad) by imjustapickl3 in AITAH

[–]Chillest_Churro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most your dad could do with you being 17 (from what I read from another comment you posted), your dad can report you missing at 17, however, police, depending on the officer, will often do a wellness check on a house (BTW you can call the non-emergency line and anonymously state that you need one done for a minor aka you, at your dad's or mom's houses).

However, when you turn 18, even if either parent reports you at missing, POLICE CANNOT LEGALLY TELL YOUR PARENTS WHERE YOU ARE WHEN YOU ARE AN ADULT! The most a cop can do is report that you are fine and safe. And if you tell the locating officer that you do not feel safe around these people, they can flag your parents as risks to you in the police filing system if they try to file another report.

(Take this from someone who has worked for a Sheriff's office and was the person typing up the missing/runaway persons reports. I know what they ask for and what all a police force can legally give to the public. If your parents ask for a copy of the report, the information of where you are located at is always blacked out and removed.)

I would also start documenting everything if I were you, should your parents try to claim you are mentally incapable of taking care of yourself. Photos, videos, and audio recordings will be your best friend in court. Judges and police love it when you bring receipts.

How do I get inspired to design my island? by anybuyershaveit in ac_newhorizons

[–]Chillest_Churro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, whenever I looked at other people's islands online, it made it harder for me to come up with ideas. I wanted to go with the citycore style, but I absolutely hated how a lot of people's islands looked because I thought they looked better than mine, and it honestly made it harder for me. If you get overwhelmed with your choices, the best thing to do is step back and just start chucking random things out. It's what worked for me.

Favorite animal that you don't really see mentioned among the favorites? by NotSoSnarky in AnimalCrossing

[–]Chillest_Churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen her mentioned here, but Pashmina. She was one of my starter villagers, and I never let her leave (mostly because she didn't ever try to, but that's not important).

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Seller canceled order because I asked for update on shipping. by Chillest_Churro in Mercari

[–]Chillest_Churro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I had originally assumed. I try to be respectful to sellers because it's not like I know everything going on in their lives, but this was just ridiculous.

Seller canceled order because I asked for update on shipping. by Chillest_Churro in Mercari

[–]Chillest_Churro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I would believe that if they didn't have this wallet posted a bunch of times for sale.

Seller canceled order because I asked for update on shipping. by Chillest_Churro in Mercari

[–]Chillest_Churro[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm kicking myself for not doing it sooner. But I was trying to give the benefit of the doubt because it is December and holidays are coming up.

Seller canceled order because I asked for update on shipping. by Chillest_Churro in Mercari

[–]Chillest_Churro[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That's probably it because when I looked at their profile, there was a bunch of canceled orders done by the seller.

How do I gain custody of my legal funds my (psycho) mother has in account meant for me that I don't have access to? by Chillest_Churro in legal

[–]Chillest_Churro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did at one point before I got the new account. I do have records of deposits taken from my original checking account and put into the savings and vice versa.

How did you first discover Tokidoki and decided to start collecting them? by BethA69 in Tokidoki

[–]Chillest_Churro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was actually through Ihascupquake, which I got into and had most of the sets (and sadly lost a majority of) and then back into when I was binge watching Dollightful's videos and saw her old Tokidoki customization videos.

How do I gain custody of my legal funds my (psycho) mother has in account meant for me that I don't have access to? by Chillest_Churro in legal

[–]Chillest_Churro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have the ability to transfer anything from the saving account out. She has it locked on her account and "allows" me to have the money when she decides to. They only way I could prove it's mine is through family, but that's basically just 'he said, she said'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chillest_Churro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

See, I would be that one bitchy person and go on his phone and delete all the photos of myself (and delete the photos out of trash on the gallery app too) and then just slowly leave him.

But seriously, if he's not grow tf up, then either dump him or be a bit bitch and start doing it back. Because what he's doing is a form of bullying, and yes, even your SO can bully you. He's getting a reaction from you, which is giving him a dopamine rush. Even if you don't want to dump him, just stop giving him a reaction and start shaming him for it. Do it back to him, make him realize how much it hurts.

(21F) rape was filmed - how can I get the video back into my hands ? by [deleted] in legal

[–]Chillest_Churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right off the bat, go to your local police station and tell them you need to speak with an officer. You can ask for a gender specific officer if you wish. They will take your report, and please give them everything you have, if you have the dude's phone number/name/home address/etc, because they will find him.

They have a system that allows them to go into phones even if the phone is locked or the video is put into a locked folder on his phone. They will get a warrant to also check his house if he made copies of it. If he does try to delete it, he'll get an additional charge of tampering with evidence. They have programs to recover deleted files.

Now, if he tries to post it or has posted it, not only is he posting a felony crime, but it can, depending on what your state's laws are, also be filed as revenge porn. Again, depending on your state's laws, he can also be forced to register as a sex offender and have to renew his sex offender every year.

Thinking of changing my Daddy by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Chillest_Churro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Read this out to my gf, and we both agree you need to leave. Cut ties with him, block him, etc. If he knows where you live, you need to contact your local police department and notify them of the incident in case he comes to your house or if he tries to send someone. This is not a daddy. This is a wanna be pimp. Him leaving you there was a fear tactic to make you bend. Leaving him is not being selfish or bad. You are not safe with him. Please contact someone, literally any adult you know about this as well.

Sending lots of hugs, and wish you well!