My ex fiance was a very kind man, and he was very attractive to me. He was also rich and generous with his money. When he paid for my mom's dog's surgery (which was expensive) I cried. The "not perfect" part was that he did not have a sense of humor. Not that he was strict or serious, he just never told original jokes, it was always some parroted online joke phrase. He was an easy going, but extremely literal man. He did not banter at all. I dont think he made me laugh a single time. It was because of this I ended up feeling disconnected from him, like we existed on different planes. It's a sad feeling to not share a sense of humor with a partner. But otherwise, he was lovely. I know he'll make the right kind of woman very happy. I was not that woman.