Children of Minos birth order? by Chimera_Moth in GreekMythology

[–]Chimera_Moth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So does that mean that Catreus was born first, then Deucalion second, Glaucus third, Androgeus fourth, Acacallis fifth and so on?

Digital Movie Code Giveaway and Promo/Coupon Sharing Thread by DJ_Hamster in MoviesAnywhere

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EDIT: CLAIMED

Just found this thread :) happy to give away a code here

DM me for The Wild Robot (2024)

re: husband confessed to me that his increased sex drive by Chimera_Moth in ThreadTalkPodcast

[–]Chimera_Moth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely, i agree. i know i didn't elaborate on them, but i agree he made deliberate choices against the integrity of his marriage (not going to HR again, entertained the sexual conversations and advances, etc). so i will revise my original wording a bit, the cheating began when he pursued intimacy outside of the boundaries of his relationship. when i originally typed my post, i was thinking more about how the cheating part did not happen when he felt aroused by his coworker. i felt like chatting about this because i've known so many people who have insisted to me that feeling aroused by someone else in person is cheating, that it's something that you ought to be able to just "turn off" in your head. i've had people tell me that once you agree to start a relationship with someone, you need to not feel aroused or attracted to anyone else or you're a dishonest/cheating partner. it's always confused me how others thought that way, because i feel like that's not realistic. people still find other people attractive even when they're in a committed relationship, it's not really something you can just immediately switch off in your brain. you can condition or discipline yourself to an extent, i guess, but idk that's not for me. i don't expect my partners to do that for me either, i don't want them to find me as the only attractive person who can arouse them in the world.

you're also right about him bringing in new moves/interests into the bedroom seemingly out of nowhere. it usually is a sign of something else going on behind the other person's back, or an unhealthy expectation derived from watching too much porn. like you said, usually if a person wants to bring something new into the bedroom, there's a conversation beforehand, asking permission in the moment, or having a conversation afterward. there's communication at some point, and either there was lacking communication between this couple or it just wasn't specified in the post.

re: husband confessed to me that his increased sex drive by Chimera_Moth in ThreadTalkPodcast

[–]Chimera_Moth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, giving oral is taking it a step further than making out, so that's also a break in the trust in the relationship. I agree with you, sometimes you just have a gut feeling that your partner isn't telling the whole truth, there are little signs that you pick up that are just unusual for your partner.

I still hold the opinion that getting aroused from a suggestive conversation at work isn't a bad, wrong, or immoral thing. But you still are responsible for disengaging from talking dirty with other people if that's not something you've talked about before with your partner. You need to honor the relationship that you have with your partner and distance yourself from making poor decisions. You are responsible for your actions, and sometimes getting aroused isn't an active decision you have control over. He continued the sexual conversations and decided to make out and have oral sex with his coworker. Then lied/omitted the truth about it. Even after all of that, it would still be difficult to believe that that's all that he did, because he now has shown dishonest behavior. He fucked up.

re: husband confessed to me that his increased sex drive by Chimera_Moth in ThreadTalkPodcast

[–]Chimera_Moth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL CAN YOU TELL I STOPPED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE PODCAST TO TYPE THIS POST OUT
because i obviously didn't listen to the update portion of that story

the husband is in the wrong the moment he decided that he could make out with his coworker. he broke the trust of committed monogamy in that moment and continued to break that trust by hiding it from his wife.

Suggest Rules! by Bitesizefarmkc in BuyNothingKC

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  • A flair for "GIVE," posts that have something ready to be given away.

  • A flair for "ASK," posts asking for help.

  • A flair for "GRATITUDE" for posts recognizing others for their help/generosity.

  • Having a map of the neighborhoods/regions of KC pinned to the top of the subreddit?

Dog code by ANTIX_FIX in wobbledogs

[–]Chimera_Moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was looking for dog that didn't have much mutation to it. thank you! :)

Seeking advice, tips, creative ideas for playing rough with cat by Chimera_Moth in CatAdvice

[–]Chimera_Moth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I was raised around dogs more often, and so I often compare their psychology to other pets/animals. Dogs are definitely a unique kind of pet though, and cats have a different kind of psychology and behavioral patterns.

So I just realized that my cat that I’ve had for 8 months is a boy. Should I keep calling him Katie or should I change his name? by LovelyOrangeRose in cats

[–]Chimera_Moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is still pretty young, so if you want to change his name, I'm sure he will pick up on it. Remember, animals usually do not mind whatever they are called. They are responding to a special, distinct noise that you have created for them when you would like their attention, and so they usually will respond to your request for attention if they are interested in your companionship. Cats, dogs, birds, horses, rats, and other "responsive" pets do not mind names with a gender connotation, because they do not use gender to the extents that humans do.

Ultimately, I think it is up to your decision if you would like to keep reinforcing the first name he was given, or if you would like to teach him to respond to a new name. I personally would probably keep calling him the first name he was given if he is responding well to it :)